lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

retrocircles

I think a tattoo & a haircut would be liberating for you! Go for it!

Hope you're having an ace weekend.

Shoe_Gal

retrocircles wrote: »

I think a tattoo & a haircut would be liberating for you! Go for it!

Hope you're having an ace weekend.

Can go with the haircut/any makeover type stuff but not keen on tattoos :eek:

doodledo_2

Lol this is what I did when I split with my Ex. Had my hair chopped and got two tattoos lol. He said "you've changed" and I said "hell yeah for the better" lol

Shoe_Gal

doodledo wrote: »

Lol this is what I did when I split with my Ex. Had my hair chopped and got two tattoos lol. He said "you've changed" and I said "hell yeah for the better" lol

Well done you :j

lilmissmup

I already have short hair and 4 tattoos though

Went round friends for dinner last night, in tonight, probably have an early night as bored already! :rolleyes:

Got into a bit of a barney with him Monday as hes car insurance is about to be cancelled as he hasn't bothered to send anything off to proof his no claims, he didn't wanna come round and get the letter but i was out last night so he had too.

He was being all nice still but i was in a foul mood all of a sudden.

Deleted him off facebook Monday night and blocked him which he also got moody about as he thinks i have things to hide and liked chatting to me on it, but i don't wanna see what he is putting....even though I am thinking about it....

I must sort out my new cat insurance tonight though as Izzy's about to expire on Friday and i wanna sort a new one with cashback.

Shoe_Gal

Hi

You're doing fab :A I know it's hard but keep away from him as much as you can, I promise it will get easier in time

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Hi lilmissmups
Didn't want to read and run. I have just read your whole diary and I thought I would send a little message to say well done on getting this far, you are doing really well.

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Shoe_Gal

Hi

How has today been? Have you got plans for the weekend?

lilmissmup

No set plans no hoping to get out the house though.

Just seen him to get some more cash and feel really crappy again now, get it in my head that everytime i see him he will want to get back with me and yeah it doesn't happen.

He only stayed 10 mins if that as i wasn't very nice or happy, started crying again.

I can't handle seeing him anymore, hoping i don't have too again, he still wants to see me and the cats but i cant have him come round to see them and just hurt me. He still owes me cash though, £125, he wanted to pay me some next week and then a bit more week after as he is going away next weekend and needs some extra cash. Think he might just put it through door though.

Stupid thing is if we talk on phone too he still gets upset, when i see him he crys too and when we text he gets upset too which makes it even harder for me :rolleyes:

TBH i am wishing it wasn't a long weekend.

Shoe_Gal

Oh Dawn, what a sad sounding post, I do feel for you :A

Do you have a friend you could invite round or go out for a few cheapie drinks with?

As for 'him' there's nothing more l can say, except to say that l think you should have as little contact with him as posisble, for both your sakes. No calls, no texts, don't think you can facebook anymore? Get him to put the cash in an envelope and put it through the door? Until you have a couple of weeks with no contact at all l don't see how either of you can get enough 'head space' to sort out yout true feelings

Don't mean to sound harsh, but l really think a complete break is the best option

Take care of you :A