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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

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  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Hi BHB,:wave:

    Thanks for letting us know that you are Ok. We have all been worried about you.:A Sorry to hear that the vultures are still circling:mad: also I hope that you can work things out with your brother.

    Take care of you and your lovely family.:wink:

    40SMxx
  • graemecarter
    graemecarter Posts: 1,205 Forumite
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    *Mari* wrote: »
    Hello there :hello:

    Its been ages since I've posted but have been lurking of late :o

    Can I please join again for August? I am away for 2 weeks so realisticly I think 16 AFD's may be achievable!! Miss Piggy can you please put me down for that?

    In the last few months my alcohol consumtion has gone from bad to worse, for no reason really other than I don't seem to have the ability to say no :mad: but what with financial worries and constant tierdness which I know is linked to my drinking I really have to make changes.

    Right Im off to read back over the last few days of the tread to see what you've all been up to and be inspired :D

    Mari x

    I was incapable of saying no, I had financial worries, and was permanently knackered, and that's when I drank the most.
    I got really down about it. Why couldn't I say no? Why was I drinking when there were consequences more than just a sore head?
    Why was I drinking more?

    It was only when I got help for my condition and admitted I was alcoholic then I could break the cycle.
    It's not an easy cycle to break, good luck.
  • Hi BHB,:wave:
    Thanks for letting us know that you are Ok. We have all been worried about you.:A Sorry to hear that the vultures are still circling:mad: also I hope that you can work things out with your brother.Take care of you and your lovely family.:wink:
    40SMxx

    :hello: Thanks 40SM :D
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Welcome Debtmonkey1A:hello:

    Sorry to hear that you and your gf are having stress & health problems. Giving up/reducing alcohol can only help matters. You have certainly come to the right place as you will get lots of help & support here.

    Good luck and I truly hope things improve for you.


    40SMx
  • :hello: Welcome Debtmonkey1A :hello:
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Welcome Debtmonkey!! Great thread this. I'm the scorer for August - why not set a target amount of alcohol free days?

    GC - Sorry, just wanted to clear up confusion. I won't be drinking Saturday. My friend accepts quite happily that I'm not drinking. Just don't want to go basically!!

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    Always nice to see another monkey about

    welcome.gif

    ym
  • I am a postive earth monkey

    Does that count

    and OH says I am really part monkey....but I am not sure this is a compliment.............

    Waves to all
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    fayjmck wrote: »
    I am a postive earth monkey

    Does that count

    and OH says I am really part monkey....but I am not sure this is a compliment.............

    Waves to all

    Course it counts fay :D More monkeys the better ;)

    ym
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Just a quick hello, my internet is down at the moment, waiting for it to come back on, speak soon....hopefully
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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