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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • SK - I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself x
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  • SK - I don't know what to say. When my wife and I lost ours at 20 weeks back in July I couldn't put into words how devastated we were. So so sorry that you're going through this.

    Take care of yourselves. I just wish there was something we could say or do to help.
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    I am so sorry sexki11en. My PM box is always open should you want it.
  • TinyPablo
    TinyPablo Posts: 292 Forumite
    So sorry SK.
  • I am so sorry SK, will be thinking of you,
    lots of love and hugs xxx
  • chickpea
    chickpea Posts: 713 Forumite
    Gutted for you SK, that's such a rotten thing to happen.

    Not much else to say - I wish I could give you a big hug though.

    Take care of yourself.
  • chickpea
    chickpea Posts: 713 Forumite
    CCM - when do you test, after the IUI? Any symptoms (not that they're much of a reliable guide to anything!)

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    Murray - I'm with you on losing patience with all the OV tests - it becomes a bit of an exercise in futility after a while..

    Maybe 'chilling' is the way forward (if it's possible - but I think to properly chill, you need to have hit rock bottom first and to actually believe it may well not happen - sort of where I am now!)

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    Staffiecat - hope the lap goes well. I quite enjoyed getting an abdominal exploration - who wouldn't?

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    Onestep - glad you had a nice holiday - we have one next month. All Inclusive and I intend to make the most of it!

    Anyway - I think I'm roughly CD24, but having all the usual pre-AF signs (big fat spots, intermittent cramps and a faint feeling of...not being pg!)
  • onestep
    onestep Posts: 893 Forumite
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    SK.. am so sorry :(

    CD 1 here for me. *sigh* am almost resigned to it never happening again now. We looked after a friend's toddler last night, put her to bed etc in DD's old travel cot. And then I sat there thinking about all the things we've held on to for #2, and actually contemplating selling them, because in all likelihood we are never going to need them. I'm thinking I'll have the appt at Cardiff (still waiting), see what they say etc, but then I need to draw a line under this, it's like picking a scab all the time (if I can mix my metaphors! :) ) Am still taking all my supplements etc, and I'll give them a few months to 'work' but I can't do it indefinitely. Can you tell it's CD 1?!! ;) Normal service will be resumed tomorrow (maybe)

    hugs to all
    When people show you who they are, believe them the first time
  • Hiya all - so sorry to hear your news sk, the biggest hugs to you and oh XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

    Congrats on the twins gin, fabulous news.

    Know what you mean, onestep - I am going to get rid too. As hubby says, if I manage it, i'll probably buy new, anyway!

    Lilo
    Live on £4000 a year again for 2011
  • So sorry SK :(
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
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