The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

nottslass_2

Wow lilo,thats the most positive news.
I'll be sending every single positive vibe and bit of baby dust your way............

toniq

Q they should be ok about the monday, explain to them ur problem and if u r near or close to size they will prob go for it a day early xx

I'm not sure if they will freeze for a day, it will be quite costly, and not all survive thawing xx

meds all payed and booked and will be here tomorrow , my schedule is still a mess so i'm still confused as it's changed from what the consultant said, but at leats i'm cycling xxx

QQuaver

toniq wrote: »

Q they should be ok about the monday, explain to them ur problem and if u r near or close to size they will prob go for it a day early xx

Thanks will phone up tomorrow:o

meds all payed and booked and will be here tomorrow , my schedule is still a mess so i'm still confused as it's changed from what the consultant said, but at leats i'm cycling xxx

Good luck!:j

chickpea

It really is all happening on here!

Good luck with EC QQ and good luck with the downregging on Fri Toniq.

Lilo - hope your OH gets through to them.

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I'm going to stay with my friend on Sat - she is pg with twins (naturally conceived) but I've just about forgiven her. Found it harder to forgive random stranger in park today who had a 2 yr old, a 1 yr old and a massive bump..Everyone with a double buggy gets a little tiny scowl from me these days..

liloandstitch

Hugs chickpea - I know what you mean about people with lots of kids and pregnant - usually aged about 18!!

No news yet, DH will chase tomorrow.

QQ - They are usually flexible, dont worry - ring tomorrow.

Toniq - sounds great

Lilo

toniq

Ju, been thinking about u today, hope u got lots and lots of lovely juicy follies xxxxx

nite ladies xx

QQuaver

Did you all tell your parents that you are undertaking IVF?
I haven't. Perhaps I should? I did tell them about my first IUI (did three), but not about IVF. Only person who knows about it is my DH.

Just wondering...

liloandstitch

Depends on what you feel, QQ. Dont have the same problem as both my parents have passed away. My stepdad knows - he is my surrogate mum! My MIL does not know - she doesnt like it - we would have less time for her. Bear in mind her reaction to me getting cancer was "who will look after me!" So we pass off our appointments as checkups.

Have a good day - lilo

toniq

My mother knew the first time and questioned me throughly and maoned i didn't go on bedrest after transfer and done the told u so when it failed, since then I never mention anything to do with my health to her, she only found out the night before about my foot and wrist surgery to keep the negativity away from me lol x

Morning ladies i hope the sun shining is good for us all xxx

Runnerduck

QQuaver wrote: »

Did you all tell your parents that you are undertaking IVF?
I haven't. Perhaps I should? I did tell them about my first IUI (did three), but not about IVF. Only person who knows about it is my DH.

Just wondering...

i told my mother when we started tests, so my parents have known all along and we told my inlaws when we started ivf, and as none of them can keep a secret now all our aunts etc know as well! but it was almost easier when it went wrong as they have all been supportive, and as i see quite a lot of them it would have been very hard to make up excuuse about giving up work etc as i had worked since i was 11 and they would have thought i was seriously ill or something! so i think its a personal thing but for me i find it good to talk

juju, ive been thinking about you hope things are going well for you xxx