The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Leopardlady

Fantastic news Winky and congrats skintmonkey 2 in a day woohooo

Well ladies i am now a few months past my latest mc, but am now 4 days late? I don't want to test for a while and have no symptoms either way? Oh well!

Hope the weather is good with you?

lisawood78

Great news on the BFP's ladies.
We go for a frozen blastocyst transfer next week, this is our 6th go at IVF/FET so fingers crossed.
Have a great day ladies
LW78

nadine220

Wow - congratulations to all the BFP's - 2 in one day and another possible on the way.

There is still hope for everyone!!:j

I am off for my hycosy this afternoon and to say I am anxious is an understatement.

Not worried about the actual procedure - I've had far too much prodding and poking to be worry about that anymore just worried about what they will tell me - and if they will tell me today.

To recap, tried to do hycosy last May but the stitch from my tumour removal op was too tight so had op in Dec to dilate this stitch. Met consultant in Jan 10 who said they still may not be able to do test but will have to wait and see.

They couldn't fit me in on last cycle so today is the culmination of 10 months of waiting (albeit TTC now for 3.5 yrs).

Just worried that if they can't get the catheter through then there will be inconclusive results and also they won't be able to do IVF in the future either - I can't have laparoscopy because of previous scar tissue from removing lymph nodes.

Think I should have worked from home today :-(

Sorry to put a downer on an otherwise positive day.

Baby hugs and dust
xxx

angelavdavis

Great news Skintmonkey.

Good luck with your blasto transfer next week Lisawood78.

hamish222

Well done on both BFP and Leopardlady hope you are the lucky third.

Leopardlady

Thanks Hamish, it would be lovely to be the lucky third, third time lucky I am trying not to think about it too much, as i am trying really hard just to enjoy life and not worry about wether or not i can get the bfp.

ginvzt

Ok, so we got 2 BFPs!!!! Anymore?

Leopardlady - let us know when you decide to test (or AF arrives, which I hope it won't).

Nothing happening here. It is CD19, so it is still a while till AF is due. We were suggested to have a break for this month due to so many follicles, but then we didn't - one time... It was just a couple of days after my scan, so I would have been ovulating a day or so later. Who knows - maybe one of those 8 will make it happen for us this month???

I am still waiting to know if we are going on that work trip or not. I would be leaving from home on Saturday (this Saturday!!!!) and we are waiting for the client to confirm everything. They said they'll let us know today.... So, in preparation I had bikini wax last night and then I needed to 'adjust' my coveralls - as they were way too long for me (both legs and sleeves!). Unfortunately, it was so thick at the seams, that the sewing machine wouldn't go through and I will have to do it by hand! I went through my wardrobe for summer clothes last night as well and washed all I could find... Now that I got my preparations under way I am sure we will be told that we are not going next week!

Leopardlady

well Ginvzt i am starting to wind myself up about all the symptoms, non symptoms and trying really hard not to think about it as i have only had one AF since the MC, so i really should just expect AF to be a bit mixed up! But i think i really want to test this weekend if still no show as FF told me that my test day was yesterday i am being really good! It helps that I am really really busy diong 12 hr days and i often don't think that much first thing in the morning, so i may be able to hold out a bit longer?

Good luck with your follies and i hope you get the trip next week, sun would be good for all of us i think.

Right well enough little indulgence, back to work.

ginvzt

Well, no trip next week. Maybe the week after, which I am not very keen, as that would mean travelling back on Good Friday (if there are any flights!!!) and being back home only Saturday afternoon, or travelling back on Saturday and arriving home only on Easter day!

Leopardlady

Well ladies, i caved in and tested last night! and i got my bfp!!!!!!!!! not sure how to feel about it at the moment, very excited and a little apprehensive, but thank you again you are all so wonderful
I will lurk for a while and not going to brave the other thread yet, it is all happening so quickly