The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

T2d medics often dont get the need for contraception do they.im sure we know our bodys best.

I dont think tamoxafin is going to work for us. Ive jyst got this horrid feelibg. Just want to go back to bed now. These horomnes arnt helping the depression. Xx

Whattodonow

PM I'm so sorry you're feeling like that. So what happens next? Are they going to double it? For how long?

I've been lurking as I have no news. I snuck my last clomid pill after I got told to stop taking them, but I think its a waste of time anyway. Have no idea when im ovulating, temps say three days after I stopped taking clomid, but I didnt BD then (thought it was too early) so I hope not. Just feels like a total waste of time.

I dont have an appointment now until end of July. So more months of pointlessly trying and emotional frustration. I just want to get to IVF or ICSI asap. I dont think anything else has a chance of working.

Part_Mouse

Wtdn only one more double then thats it for me tablet wise. I dont want to give ul on fhem yet but i know im not responding properley.

Sorry to hear of your troubles aswell.xx

Peonie

Peonie wrote: »

I had my pre-op meeting this morning (laparoscopy and dye). She said if I, miraculously, get pregnant this cycle the appointment will be cancelled. But I'm concerned that if I do get, miraculously, pregnant and we try for a second and have secondary infertility then I can't have the operation through the NHS. I want to know my tubes are OK. Is the lap and dye part of the fertility treatment the NHS won't pay for?

Well, I don't have to worry about not having the operation. CD1 and my cycles have gone down to 24 days.

Peonie

time2deal wrote: »

Ha! That's great. do you dream what I look like, or in text? Thanks anyway! I dreamt I had a baby boy two nights ago, but no such luck it seems.

I dreamt I had a beautiful baby boy; I gazed down at him and my heart was full of love. Then he turned into a cabbage patch doll. :rotfl:You have to laugh.

Sorry T2D about the BFN and and PM the bad news.

Primmer

PartMouse - sending hugs

T2D - fingers crossed for next time you test.

Onestep - unfortunately nothing is happening with us at moment. We were told at open evening that social worker would phone us within two to three weeks to arrange time for initial visit but we have heard nothing despite that being over 3 weeks ago so it's very frustrating! How are things going for you?

tea_lover

Primmer, I hope they call soon!

claire16c

time2deal wrote: »

He said I really should be using contraception. I told him our contraception up to this point has been well timed BD'ing when I know I'm ovulating! It's worked without fail so far. (I didn't say this... I said we didn't think of it, as it was the first time etc)

Ha! That should be pinned up on fertility websites everywhere!

onestep

Primmer wrote: »

Onestep - unfortunately nothing is happening with us at moment. We were told at open evening that social worker would phone us within two to three weeks to arrange time for initial visit but we have heard nothing despite that being over 3 weeks ago so it's very frustrating! How are things going for you?

Oh that's rubbish are you going with your local authority or an agency? We decided to go with an agency; our local authority took ages to reply to our initial enquiry, & we felt that didn't bode well.. The agency seem really positive & it feels right. We're booked on a 3 day preparation course in July. Nothing until then. I've decided not to google adoption blogs - they are mostly negative & scary :eek: Have to say I'm v glad you're going through this at the same time as us.. Nice not to feel alone!

Part_Mouse

Primmer how rubbish,I hope you hear soon.

AFM sepent the night in A&E with a suspected DVT

xx