The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

WTDN, your luteal phase (between ov & period) tends to stay the same length. It's usually 14 days, give or take a few. It usually varies a lot less than the first part of the cycle can.

Whattodonow

Thank you tea!

becca0417

WTDN my cycles have changed dramatically since taking clomid but my LP has been the same always 12 days x

Whattodonow

Thanks becca!
I'm either 10 or 11dpo. Just took a test and bfn

tea_lover

That's still quite early, could just be a shy bfp. Fingers crossed x.

ETA: also early for a bfp to show up if you weren't using fmu.

becca0417

Fingers crossed it is a shy one!!

Part_Mouse

Fingers crossed from me to.

Xx

TeamLowe

Fingers crossed for you! X x

teaandcakeordeath

Tea, I'm over the moon for you! Lets have a baby boom on this thread now please!

teaandcakeordeath

AFM: I've decided to go and see the FS privately (thanks Fluff and everyone else for your words of encouragement). Hopefully he will be able to tell me if I'm physically able to have children. If it's good news I'm still thinking of lobbying him for clomid despite OH's SA results. I don't feel mentally ready for IVF just yet though I sort of know that it's probably going to be the only way... That said we've got our IVF evening confirmation in the post for the beginning of May. It was the final push that I needed to book the appointment as I can't think of anything worse than deciding to go through with it and then being told that my uterus is too duff...

If the news isn't good then luckily for me there's an adoption evening next week by me so I might pop along to that depending how I'm feeling...

Off to go and torture myself by having a peep at the other thread... Sucker for punishment...