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Diary of a broken gambler

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  • got the forms today from the advice shop
    is it very different in scotland?
  • Amiga
    Amiga Posts: 241 Forumite
    Hello,

    I was sorting through old letters last night and realised that it is 2 years to the week since I had the BRU/BRO meeting with the OR. That period was the worst of my life, even worse than actually declaring myself BR. I really just wanted to say thanks again to all the lovely people who helped me through that period with advice and best wishes.

    My life is pretty good at the moment, I am still working, I recently moved into a studio flat and I am trying to put the whole BR thing behind me. Life with a BRU is ok. I find little things harder to do, such as I wanted to hire a car, and clearly I can't have a credit card, so even though I had the cash to do it I couldn't. Things like that are a small price to pay though for putting all the worry of debt behind me. I still feel guilty about what I did, but I have really learnt from my mistake.

    So again, thank you to everyone.
  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    Hi Amiga, its so lovely to hear from you and know your alright and life is so much better for you now:beer:

    Love
    If...x
    "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
    Hi Amiga, glad that things are going OK for you and that you have dropped in to see us:)
    :pB&SC No. 298
    Life`s Tragedy is that we get OLD too soon
    and WISE too late!
  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    hi Amiga, so good to hear from you, i'm glad you're getting on with your life, sounds like things are going well. The guilt will fade with time, just carry on doing what you're doing, all the best lots of love xxx
  • I've just read all of this diary. Very enlightening and thought provoking stuff. So glad that all is going well for you now. :)
    There is a light at the end of the tunnel.....I just need to find the switch.
  • Angiepange
    Angiepange Posts: 3,521 Forumite
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    Amiga wrote: »
    Hello,

    I was sorting through old letters last night and realised that it is 2 years to the week since I had the BRU/BRO meeting with the OR. That period was the worst of my life, even worse than actually declaring myself BR. I really just wanted to say thanks again to all the lovely people who helped me through that period with advice and best wishes.

    My life is pretty good at the moment, I am still working, I recently moved into a studio flat and I am trying to put the whole BR thing behind me. Life with a BRU is ok. I find little things harder to do, such as I wanted to hire a car, and clearly I can't have a credit card, so even though I had the cash to do it I couldn't. Things like that are a small price to pay though for putting all the worry of debt behind me. I still feel guilty about what I did, but I have really learnt from my mistake.

    So again, thank you to everyone.

    I remember you well Amiga :) We shared the same BR date.

    Really glad to hear life is good for you, you deserve some happiness :A

    xx
  • Noofywoo
    Noofywoo Posts: 38 Forumite
    Hi Amiga,

    Great to hear how you are doing, keep up the good work, life will keep on gettng better now.

    Take care
    Noofywoo
  • fiveyearplan
    fiveyearplan Posts: 10,145 Forumite
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    Great to hear things are going well for you Amiga. Your thread has been a help and inspiration to so many people and is still being referred to for newbies in similar sitations.

    :j :j


  • Somerset
    Somerset Posts: 3,636 Forumite
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    Amiga, glad life is better. All the best :T
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