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Burlesque_Babe

InkyCats20 wrote: »

she coming to Weyibiza :sad:

:beer::j:T:beer::j

beanielou

sally~Have to agree with Toto & Maz.
For what its worth I think its been a long time coming.
On a happy note you will be much better off if you do make the break.

sammy115

scaredy_cat wrote: »

i don't either.

i'm still chatting to blokes from the site, infact was speaking to a guy earlier but i had to tell him i don't do men who are separated....

As opposed to married!:eek: No, seriously, I know what you mean, but why on earth not! Not always their fault and if that was the case I would never have ended up with my OH.

(Land_of)_Maz

sal - it's not a case of kicking him when he's down...... ask him if he wants to leave... tell him it's his choice entirely, you're not asking him to go, but giving him his get out of jail free card... if he doesn't take it, then lay down some groundrules.....

says me, who's in a nonperfect relationship!!

Ames

Z - 'apparantly' is according to her, my parents don't talk to me about anything serious to do with my life, just moan about me to her. And as most of my friends are mutual with her they'll take her side too.

Fingers crossed, her degree problem isn't as bad as I thought. I don't understand it all, but she can resit this module without repeating the year, but she had to pass it to pass some others - she's not sure if it meant she had to pass first time though.

When she's sorted it out I'm going to have to talk to her properly, she's trying to change everything in my life and even what makes me me, and I'm going to have to be strong and say no about some of it.

Burlesque_Babe

scaredy_cat wrote: »

on the last couple of dates, during snogging sessions *insert blushing smiley* he intimated that he'd like to know me 'much better' t but i didn't let things go that far... and as of yet i've not invited him inside my flat.

so i was thinking has this made him act like this?

well, if it is, then you're well out of it to be honest. If he goes cool just because he doesn't think things are moving quick enough (and doesn't even talk to you about it) then he just isn't worth it at all.

scaredy_cat

sammy115 wrote: »

As opposed to married!:eek: No, seriously, I know what you mean, but why on earth not! Not always their fault and if that was the case I would never have ended up with my OH.

i feel there are too many things still linking them to their wife and i know it's not alway their fault but i would feel like 'the other woman'.

InkyCats20

sallyx wrote: »

sorry hun, fab news you are coming...turning into a very good meet! Oh and I know exactly where your hotel is, nice sea view hopefully!

Thanks Sal - I was only being silly, ((hugs)) for your "situation" with OH, don't have anything new to suggest but can really echo what the others have said but sometimes its better to be in no relationship than one thats making you so unhappy but of course if different when there are children to be considered..
I'll shut up now

sammy115

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

says me, who's in a nonperfect relationship!!

and me! :rotfl:get me Marje Proops....

Do as I say not as I do...:rotfl:

beanielou

Maz~How far from L to F?