~~~*Wed june 17th-Daily Chatters with DFW's-All Welcome!*~~

sammy115

who is huge fanny marketstall

edit: hugh fernley wittingstall

ZTD

AKA Hugh Ferny Whattshisfaff....

sammy115

Yes, Sally what Toto said.....no dad is better than a crap dad.

Herewegoagain

Sal, I agree with the others, I had to ask mine to go in the end, it was hard but I wish I had done it much earlier, we girls can cope and look at all the suport you get on here. (((((hugs)))))) hon

HWGA xx

scaredy_cat

right - i have a conumdrum.

new blokey - we have met up 5 times, all signals from him is that he likes, etc, etc,

we last went out on 7th jun, last weekend he was away with friends, i spoke to him breifly on sat night. he sadi he'd call when he got in on sunday. sunday no call - i tried to call him got his answer service. he sends me a text just after 10pm, he'd just got in and was v tired, and was going to bed (by, he gets up at 6am for his job) also said he'd call me monday. Monday no call - i call his mobile - switched off cos it goes to voice mail so i send him a txt was he watching the footie,hope all was ok....

tues, no call from him, i don't call or txt as i don't want to seem like i'm harrassing him!!

today, i send him a txt , saying i got all my college work in, hope i'm not bugging him but i like talking to him, and to take care. <- hoping to sound not clingy or anything like that but to let him know i liek him still.


so, my conumdrum - do i now leave it up to him to contact me next?

question to bloky types - how does the above seem to you? annoying? clingy? desparate? or 'ok, i know women like to have contact'


i'm sooooooo confused!!!:mad:

sammy115

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Tigz-back home with DH.

OMGIDDY AUNT, Huge Fanny Marketstall is eating slugs. I kid you not.

did he put salt on them first :rotfl:

Burlesque_Babe

Sally - please don't go and cry

I'm not sure what I can contribute as I don't have children so it's not a consideration for me when things are pants, but how about a serious sit down after Bea is in bed and lay the cards on the table - from both sides.

Is this a growing situation since he lost his job? I was wondering if there is some kind of depression creeping in and it's showing itself through him verbally lashing out.

Burlesque_Babe

scaredy_cat wrote: »

so, my conumdrum - do i now leave it up to him to contact me next?

yes. 100%.

However hard it is to want to contact him, don't. You've made your move, a couple of times and he hasn't responded. Time for him to make his.

If he doesn't respond by the weekend, go and find someone else. :cool:

Herewegoagain

SC, I'm no good at giving advice on men, I'm carp at it and have given up

HWGA xx

sammy115

scaredy_cat wrote: »

right - i have a conumdrum.

new blokey - we have met up 5 times, all signals from him is that he likes, etc, etc,

we last went out on 7th jun, last weekend he was away with friends, i spoke to him breifly on sat night. he sadi he'd call when he got in on sunday. sunday no call - i tried to call him got his answer service. he sends me a text just after 10pm, he'd just got in and was v tired, and was going to bed (by, he gets up at 6am for his job) also said he'd call me monday. Monday no call - i call his mobile - switched off cos it goes to voice mail so i send him a txt was he watching the footie,hope all was ok....

tues, no call from him, i don't call or txt as i don't want to seem like i'm harrassing him!!

today, i send him a txt , saying i got all my college work in, hope i'm not bugging him but i like talking to him, and to take care. <- hoping to sound not clingy or anything like that but to let him know i liek him still.


so, my conumdrum - do i now leave it up to him to contact me next?

question to bloky types - how does the above seem to you? annoying? clingy? desparate? or 'ok, i know women like to have contact'


i'm sooooooo confused!!!:mad:

Not sure that I would want to call him Scaredy. I am not an expert by any means but unless he 'forgot' to call you it sounds a bit like he is either playing games with you or he doesn't want to call.

But - I do not understand the dating milarky much!