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ZTD

sallyx wrote: »

Oh and Ive had 2 flucking awful days....
Yesterday picked DD up from school and she said she hated one of the teachers/helpers at school, why? Because she has pushed her into a queue. DD is OCD child and WILL not forget this even though there really isn't an issue in my mind, thats what they have to do to get them all in a queue and keep them safe. Spoke to someone today about it just so they were aware that DD was obviously anxious about it. One of the leaders said DD has been very very clingy lately and wanting 1 on 1 attention all the time :eek: So either I am not giving her enough attention at home and she is seeking it from others or she gets too much at home and its what she is used to and therefore seeks it at school. Talk about stressing me out that she is unhappy

Yes. It's all your fault. She's doing something which is inconvenient to the people at that school. It can't be them doing something wrong at the time. You're doing something. Too much of something. No actually - too little of it. No. Perhaps it's both too much and too little of it all at the same time. Whatever it is, the people at the school are completely blameless. After all, if your daughter complains about an event that happened at school, it's nothing to do with that event at all. It's a sub-Freudian complex about something you did. In her childhood no less. It has to be you! The school is blameless! BLAMELESS YOU HEAR!!

Now go away and thrash yourself for all your failings, and your horrible motherness and try to pretend they're not really talking shiite... :rolleyes:

ZTD

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

DS and DD are both displaying 'stress' behaviours at the minute-we still have DD toilet problems and DS has started biting his nails so badly, he makes them bleed. I worry all the time it's because I work, I'm a horrible Mom, etc. Apparently both 'common' problems but doesn't make you feel any better does it!?

Alternatively, it could have absolutely nothing to do with what you're doing and could just be "one of those things"...

That would explain why it's common...

sammy115

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Sally
I think the honours may go to your DH tonight, not YOU.

We all beat ourselves up about being bad parents but honestly, lets look at what our parents did to us! lol I have NEVER smacked my childrens bottom like I had mine wholloped as a kid, or shook like a rag doll like mine did to me, and I still love my Mom....


I have 'kind of' restored balance to my kitchen and also ordered a chinese. DH told me he understands WHY I am stressed but that to get used to it because when he re-wires it will be worse. *bunny now remembers WHY she always wanted to buy new houses*

Bunny, my mum used to buy shacks and do em up (took her a couple of years at a time) - is there any way you could just draw the line at the mess going into just one room and retreat into it...(I think the answer is no though if I remember your house layout)

ZTD

sallyx wrote: »

Yeah you are right, she's never been good with people pushing, touching her. Although I have noticed she has been more clingy and started crying when I leave her lately...!!!!!! why is parenting so hard

When you say "leave her" do you mean "at school"?

sallyx

and it gets worse....DD just came down and said Daddy doesn't like me, I said yes he does, she said No I said I didn't like Daddy and he said well I don't like you Bea...talk about giving your child low self esteem. !!!!!! I am SO glad I am not leaving her with him for a whole weekend. Off to have a cry in the corner

sammy115

ZTD wrote: »

Yes. It's all your fault. She's doing something which is inconvenient to the people at that school. It can't be them doing something wrong at the time. You're doing something. Too much of something. No actually - too little of it. No. Perhaps it's both too much and too little of it all at the same time. Whatever it is, the people at the school are completely blameless. After all, if your daughter complains about an event that happened at school, it's nothing to do with that event at all. It's a sub-Freudian complex about something you did. In her childhood no less. It has to be you! The school is blameless! BLAMELESS YOU HEAR!!

Now go away and thrash yourself for all your failings, and your horrible motherness and try to pretend they're not really talking shiite... :rolleyes:

Couldn't have put it better meself :rotfl:

(Land_of)_Maz

sammy115 wrote: »

Maz you aren't a bad mother....why don't you just let Erin play with my DD1 and DD2 - you chillax.....

she's looking forward to meeting all the kids..... i'm going to try and relax, go with the flow some!

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

for goodness sakes.......have people nothing better in their lives ? :rolleyes:

18 complaints - 'Duffy wasn't wearing reflective clothing and her bike had no lights'

http://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/uk_national_entertainment/4442807.Duffy_s_advert_draws_complaints/

If I complained that she was wearing clothes, do you think they could do something about that..?

Buffythedebtslayer

scorgeous wrote: »

OH MI GOD, I've just watched last night's episode of Ghost Whisperer and I'm sitting here sobbing like a big wet lettuce :eek: good job DH has gone out for the evening

I watched it last night

I was gutted. Its amazing but I really like that show and now its ruined for me

:rotfl:

sad but true.

xxx

Bunnyinthelights

Sal,

Brain him