Weekly Flylady Thread 15th June 2009

carol22_2

Summermoon hugs and I hope it gets better soon, have you seen your GP about the depression?
FFP - it's nice to see you again, hope you are okay, and I bet your DS will be great!
Fedup - lots of hugs still hun, I'm glad you're managing to keep your mind off things.
Kaz I'm soooo pleased that your OH has kept his job! Yay!!
Toots thanks for the advice, I rang my auntie and she was lovely as usual, said some really nice things, so I feel a bit calmer now.

I have now rang the taxi, they have definitely got our booking, and I have a back-up number for a different firm just in case. Boyf has sorted his clohthes, I've told him anything not on the bed will not be packed, and he paid for dinner so I'm going to do the washing up in a few minutes, then I can put the basils in the sink.

Love to all
xx

kazwookie

Hoovered round
Swept floor
Sorted out junk mail in to the recycling bin!!
Watching telly tonight

Kazm glad things are sorted. xxx

serena

Flitting in and out - I'm so tired. It was stormy today, and I've had a headache all day. I rarely take paracteamol, but had to take extra at lunchtime.

Hugs to kaz and heroh.

Hi to all the returning flyladies - lovely to see you back!!

Off to wash up before I fall asleep on the keyboard... (that's the relevant flying bit...;))

DS2's 15th birthday tomorrow!!!

SummerMoon

fedupandskint wrote: »

SummerMoon,

Poor you having to put up with this. Will he share a list with you if you write it down? If not will he cook tea and wash up for you as compensation? Or will he do a HHC and see how much you can get done in half an hour and then it might even be done for the day!

Otherwise I would tell him to g*t st*ff*ed as it is not just a woman's job to clean the house and make it clean.

I too have felt the depressive thoughts reappear a bit and found doing a HHCx4 helped me focus on something else for a while and not dwell on how I felt.

Thanx hun, have done lists.....he whinges if there is more than 3 things on it, or if it invovles anything more than washing dishes ad putting the WM on.
HHC..... no chance, he can just about drag himselve off his backside to go to the loo or put the kids to bed.
Have come seriously close to telling him to get st*ffed on a number of occasions, but that would be cutting my nose off to spite my face!! Cos he STILL wouldnt do anything!!!

Anyone know anywhere that does male obedience lessons hehe.
I'll think of something, think a rota of some sort, and put up with the whinging until he gets used to it. Really cant go on like this for much longer!!!

Payback, thanx for the book ideas and the site, will definately check those out. I was on meds until about 6 months ago, may have to go back on them if things dont improve. Normally I am fine, just everynow and again things start to !!!! me off. Will see how things go!

Thanx for the hugs everyone.

AnW'sMum

Kazm I am so pleased for you both, not quite the outcome you wanted but a positive one all the same, hugs from me.

Just back from the cub run, both are in bed so I shall fold the last load from the TD and then open a can of guinness

Summer have you tried a bit psychology on him? The OTT praise when he does do something or the drip drip feed of ideas to him? Some of these things can take time to filter through into their brains but can have the desired result

dinx1972

Reporting in (again) for first of many days of flying. Stopped now as have done too much and back aching like mad:mad: (will I never learn).

Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
[STRIKE]
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Scrub down the front of units and large appliances and kickboards
[/STRIKE]
Level Two
[STRIKE]Wipe and replace small appliances[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Clean out the gruesome fridge [/STRIKE]done on Sunday before restock
Wash windows
Level Three
Sweep and mop the floor
Clean the oven [STRIKE]and hob[/STRIKE] - oven currently being Ovenprided as we speak:rotfl:




Extras

1. [STRIKE]Thoroughly clean the undersink cupboard [/STRIKE]
2. [STRIKE]replace blown light bulbs in kitchen[/STRIKE]
3. [STRIKE]clean out guinea pigs[/STRIKE]
4. [STRIKE]make my lunch for tomorrow[/STRIKE]

Was disappointed with myself as kitchen still looks like a bombsite:rotfl:, but looking at the completed list above I am quite pleased with myself as I have achieved quite a lot, and now have backache to prove it:rotfl:.

soappie

Oh dear, there are a couple of down people today. I wonder how we'd do a virtual conga to cheer ourselves up albeit for two minutes?

Hugs to everyone. Summer - have you thought about withholding 'privileges'

msgnomey

Have put away the ironing (OH ironed)
Wiped down the surfaces in the kitchen
Cleared and wiped down the window sill
Dusted with my feather Flylady duster
Have also pottered in the garden and planted out some carnations I grew from spurs on bunches I had for the house!!
Just about to do some planning then try to get an early night!!!

Hugs to all who need them xxxx

penguin83

Evening all, bit late joining this week! Working all this week but trying to get some sort of order back to the house. Picked up a stomach bug (lucky me) over the weekend and amazing how much mess the kids have managed to make!

Pigpen - thanks for the lists
Toots/Soappie - thanks for the stars, not that I will bothering you much this week!
Kaz - glad its over have a realxing evening.

Off to do some housework now! x x x

Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Scrub down the front of units and large appliances and kickboards
Level Two
Wipe and replace small appliances
Clean out the gruesome fridge
Wash windows
Level Three
Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
Sweep and mop the floor
Clean the oven and hob
Extras

1. Thoroughly clean the undersink cupboard
2. dust and deweb
3. clean the paintwork
4. Wipe the inside doors.. inside.. and out!!

froddington

Evening! I do like it being the kitchen on a Monday as I get home late but it's relatively easy to do whilst dinner is cooking List updated - will catch up with the thread now ............

Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room

Level Three
Vacuum the floor
Clean the oven [STRIKE]and hob[/STRIKE]

Extras Wipe the inside doors.. inside.. and out!!

My one-a-day (or 7-a-weekend!!) list
- Avon order
- Plant out tomatoes
- Write Annual Review
- Cross stitch card
- Make circus CD
- Sort ink cartridges
- Car checks