Needs must when the devil vomits into your kettle! Bob's cunning plan mark 2

Wol2

ZTD wrote: »

Do you think there is the possibility he is dragging you deeper into debt in order to ensure you stay?



Anger is not productive. Determine your situation, determine where you want to be, determine the tools you have to get you there and determine the obstacles that are in your way.

A solution will present itself.

If all else fails - Sally has a spade...

Wow..another excellent post

(errmm....not necessarily about the spade :rotfl:)

Hang in there Bob

xxx

Wol2

OK..just got to the end

Bob me old mate...hope you;re managing to get some "you" time while you're away...and that the oinkers bugs are now well and truly dispelled from your system

This has been a pretty tough couple of weeks for you hasn;t it lass?...sorry I've not been around to add my support until now :grouphug::grouphug:

What a lot of wonderful posts from everyone..:T....you;re a great gal Bob...and we're all behind you and wishing you well....

Courage ma souer.......you WILL get to where you want to be.......

...and if all else fails..put the remnants of the beans and courgettes in his petrol tank

xxx

taxi73

Glad to hear that you are taking a few days out..a change of scenery may do you all good x

EssexHebridean

I truly hope you've had the sort of marvellous time that reminds you of why you are with the person you're with Bob - I think you need it so my fingers are crossed xxx

boredofbeingathome

Well back home after a mammoth journey on M6, M5 and a tour of all the roadworks from Bristol onwards:o

Bit of a mixed bag really as everyone still recovering with coughs etc.

Good points.

Seeing DD1, rellies and getting on lovely beach with actual sunshine, fresh air, only using one tank of petrol each way, cheap spends.

Bad points, traffic jams, time spent there only 4 days in total because of travel, ended up talking at weird times with Mr.B not actually sure what has been resolved as he is good at ignoring what i say and carrying on as if nowt has happened.:o

Major changes ahead though as i want Honesty in our relationship and if that means tough talking *every day* then it will be like that. I have said he has to budget his side of debts and make sure they are paid, then when i have cleared mine,and the joint ones, we can make inroads into his. I don't know whether that sounds fair, but i wanted to make a point that it takes two here and he needs to pack in his stupid ways otherwise we have no future.

It is a plan of sorts and timescale will be on a two year run at the moment. Mine should be cleared by March, joint by june then his after. Depending on God's good graces on the work front etc.
Plus if trusty couch will give up the necessaries:rolleyes:Or i will have to resort to the bingo:eek: mutter, twitch, mutter:rotfl:

So that is where the land lies at the moment.

hypno06

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

Or i will have to resort to the bingo:eek: mutter, twitch, mutter:rotfl:
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Come over to the daaaark side :rotfl:

boredofbeingathome

hypno06 wrote: »

Come over to the daaaark side :rotfl:

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo:eek::rotfl:

hypno06

Come on -you know you want to

In_Search_Of_Me

yeah..you too could be bored so ridgidfor FREE (virgin doing free bingo slots at the mo) that even mr bob will seem dynamic, exciting and fun to be with! Welcome home. Sorry it was a mixed bag but hope at least that mr bob realises that enough is enough? Hugs for you....

Ddraig

They sucked me in Bob ,all of them,the daily clicks,free scratchies,surveys and now competition.I been at it all weekend,lol.
Sorry to hear oh is still making your head hurt hun..Know where you at if you get me.And after 3 kids being home all week Im totally ready for them to go back to school.
Hope you have a better week this week xxx