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  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Why should I feel shame? Is that breaking the law?
    I'm not suffering at all, I said that is a line that gets posted often enough. .
    As long as the child grows to learn having children is not just about getting maintainence and a house off the sate then she has learned from the episode, this is the 21st century and it's about equal rights, if the situation is not equal or close to that then one party walks away and easily :T
    What a sad outlook you have on life and that of your own flesh and blood.
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    What a sad outlook you have on life and that of your own flesh and blood.

    Sad for the child and Mum perhaps, but your physcological black mail wont work in this camp :p, the law states I contribute financially and that is what I do, i don't have to impress upon anybody and that is what some of you vindictive folk need to be mindful of, after all , you are the one with care not the non resident party , some things money cant buy, and I'm sure there are other visitors here on MSE that would trade their csa money for regular contact :D
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Sad for the child and Mum perhaps, but your physcological black mail wont work in this camp :p, the law states I contribute financially and that is what I do, i don't have to impress upon anybody and that is what some of you vindictive folk need to be mindful of, after all , you are the one with care not the non resident party , some things money cant buy, and I'm sure there are other visitors here on MSE that would trade their csa money for regular contact :D
    Physcological black mail? Can i ask do you have a partner? if so how do they feel that you so easily walked away from your child and your proud about it, infact you boast about it. If you don't have a partner do you think they would find this an attractive quality, who knows you may even do the same thing to a new partner?
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Physcological black mail? Can i ask do you have a partner? if so how do they feel that you so easily walked away from your child and your proud about it, infact you boast about it. If you don't have a partner do you think they would find this an attractive quality, who knows you may even do the same thing to a new partner?

    Aye, you see, what you fail to fathom is not everyone feels or thinks the same way as you do, I do very well with the ladies thank you very much, there is no boasting just not the shame that you portray everybody should have. When I do date for any length of time, the people I date are often level headed and broadminded enough to understand there is nowt great about being vindictive or motivated by those extra ££s and understand why I live my life as i do, it is my choice nobody else's :A
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Aye, you see, what you fail to fathom is not everyone feels or thinks the same way as you do, I do very well with the ladies thank you very much, there is no boasting just not the shame that you portray everybody should have. When I do date for any length of time, the people I date are often level headed and broadminded enough to understand there is nowt great about being vindictive or motivated by those extra ££s and understand why I live my life as i do, it is my choice nobody else's :A
    So your not actually dating at the moment :A
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    So your not actually dating at the moment :A

    I never said that either :D
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    I never said that either :D
    Aha! so it's become apparent that you like to play mind games.
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Aha! so it's become apparent that you like to play mind games.

    Nope, as said earlier I don't do battles or mind games, just make the best of my life where I have control over, and within limits be 'done' where I have to allow :)
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Nope, as said earlier I don't do battles or mind games, just make the best of my life where I have control over, and within limits be 'done' where I have to allow :)
    Of course you do, what do you think you have been doing with me on this thread.
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Of course you do, what do you think you have been doing with me on this thread.

    I thought we were debating :)
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