** Weekend Chat 6/7th June **

ZTD

Lucifa73 wrote: »

oh good :kisses3:
the 'always' - not the 'off for a bit':o

"We dig dig dig dig dig dig ourselves deeper the whole day through
To put our foot in our mouths is what we like to do"

Burlesque_Babe

just keep talking to us Luc, but you can PM me at any time if you want to talk and get stuff - absolutely anything - off your chest. xx

For me, one of the most helpful things was writing it all down. I was going through it the same time I was on a debt busting drive so Ihad a diary and it all went in there.

I used loads of the excerpts as part of the evidence against her and I still have a hard copy. Sometimes I come across the paperwork when I'm looking for other stuff and I'm shocked at what I read. One day though, I will read through my old DFW diary as an 'outsider' to finally put it all to bed.

Lucifa73

I feel better for having broached the subject. You're such a fab bunch - not sure where I'd be without you :grouphug:

For me, one of the most helpful things was writing it all down. I was going through it the same time I was on a debt busting drive so Ihad a diary and it all went in there.

maybe I should dust off my DFW diary ...

becky_rtw

So to change the subject...

The dress that wasnt going to arrive (it was out of stock) arrived while I was in Vienna so now I have two and I like them both but I really should send one back... naughty not mse Becky

Lucifa73

becky_rtw wrote: »

So to change the subject...

The dress that wasnt going to arrive (it was out of stock) arrived while I was in Vienna so now I have two and I like them both but I really should send one back... naughty not mse Becky

Will you get use out of both? A pretty girl can never have too many dresses (or shoes, handbags, make up....)

Lucifa73

Hmm - I really should defuzz ahead of Tadpoles tomorrow...

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

I am exactly like that and always have been (and still am). I have always seen asking for help as a sign of weakness so I've (in any situation) kept things to myself and tried to work it out, particularly at work.

Eventually though, it gets to the point when you just have to let go

Never be afraid of getting help for stuff. It's division of labour, and without it, we'd still all be subsistance farmers. Some people are better than others at things. For example I have the knowledge, skills and experience to be able to lash this site together and the associated communications network. But how good is my cooking? (without using the word shiite...)

ZTD

becky_rtw wrote: »

So to change the subject...

The dress that wasnt going to arrive (it was out of stock) arrived while I was in Vienna so now I have two and I like them both but I really should send one back... naughty not mse Becky

Is this the red one? Or the wipe-clean one?

Burlesque_Babe

Lucifa73 wrote: »

maybe I should dust off my DFW diary ...

it is something I would definitely recommend..........;)

becky_rtw

They are both red - but one is too short for weddings but will be a lovely beach dress and I music magpied some stuff that comes to the exact amount so am not counting it really

Got my sisters wedding present through too - am hoping she'll like it...I think they will so thats what matters