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** Weekend Chat 6/7th June **

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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    :wave: hello friends, crapola day here...fed up and just trying to get DD bathed and into bed so I can escape to the allotment for a couple of hours before the apprentice comes on.

    Len bit of a near escape at the campsite hey!
    Luc sweetie, glad you came on and told us how you are feeling, just keep talking and we are always here
    BB Mwah you are a strong lady and you never cease to amaze me :)
    Bunny, sorry but you had me howling with laughter that is hillarious!
    Snags...come on details of date
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    it will be lovely on your allotment this evening sally, it's really nice now.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Sally ((hugs)) sorry you had a crap day hunny xxxx

    I'm glad I made someone laugh, I was mortified...
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    edited 7 June 2009 at 6:45PM
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    who when where and why are you embarassed?

    ooooooooh, is it with CAG? Or the guy at work you like but you are too shy to tell him??

    erm.....it's not Shrek I hope young lady......

    No, this is with someone new. :D Hence the embarrassment! Because i seem to be making a bit of a habit of this! :o

    CAG is LOVELY, a very genuine, sweet, funny, kind, attractive person. I enjoyed the date, it was easy and comfortable, but it was a bit too comfortable, like maybe we had been married for 10 years. Maybe I'm being a fool, but I want passion and excitement, even if that wont last forever.

    Given up on sexy work guy - it would just be too messy. :cool:

    Shrek - christ no! I might not ever fully get over him, but that doesn't mean I'd go back. If you paid me. In chocolate. Wrapped in £50 notes. :rotfl:

    This guy is a complete gentleman but I get the impression there's more under the surface. He's Dutch but has been living in Manchester for the last 13 years, and he's cute in a dishevelled sort of way, which isn't at all what I usually go for. But there's something sort of sexy about him. :D
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    This guy is a complete gentleman but I get the impression there's more under the surface. He's Dutch but has been living in Manchester for the last 13 years, and he's cute in a dishevelled sort of way, which isn't at all what I usually go for. But there's something sort of sexy about him. :D

    OMG are you coming for a visit :T:T:T:T:T
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    spud30 wrote: »
    OMG are you coming for a visit :T:T:T:T:T

    He's coming to Leeds (Over an hour on the train each way just to spend 2 hours in a pub with me! I feel slightly guilty! :o), but if it goes well, you never know Spudley! :D
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    he sounds a bit scrummy Snaggles :D

    You certainly do know how to charm the gentlemen you foxy little minx ;)
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • bookseller1980
    bookseller1980 Posts: 7,924 Forumite
    Luc - big hugs.
    Admitting the way you are feeling is the first step and I bet you feel better already. Have a chat to you Dr and your OH.
    You have nothing to be ahamed off. Yes, you have lots to be thankful for especially with the arrival of little Nathan BUT you have had a life changing few months. Your hormones have been, and still are, here, there and everywhere, you are now responsible for a little tiny life, your job went caput and you are now trying to decide on plans for the future.
    Look after yourself for a wee while - seek help and support here and elsewhere if you continue to feel this way. We all need help sometimes.

    I've said enough. I'll delete this if you wish.
    xx
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks Bookie. You're right. It is a load off!

    Have spoken to Hubbles and he has been fab (why did I expect anything less:rolleyes:)

    Will speak to HV on Thurs

    Have to log out now as its the wee man's bedtime and then planning a cosy evening on the couch with HUbbles who has made a Malaysian Beef and Aubergine (sorry Bunny) curry for dinner.

    See you all tomorrow. Have a lovely evening and thanks again

    Luc xxx
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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    He's coming to Leeds (Over an hour on the train each way just to spend 2 hours in a pub with me! I feel slightly guilty! :o), but if it goes well, you never know Spudley! :D

    Awww, you're worth it ;)

    fingers crossed :D
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
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