A Room With a Vent do you think you can top this

Blonde_Bint

My first thread bit nervous so please be gentle

I have read some shocking stories over here, real heartbreakers some. everyone here has been on the receiving end of situations you probably couldnt make up, so I got to thinking that between all of us here we probably have some very amusing incidents and mabe just incidents that are so stupid they are mind boggling. Or how about if you feel like an explosion but dont want to wreck a thread. Drop your bomb over here. The more the merrier and dont be shy;)

I'll start the ball rolling. This one is stupid.

PWC is on one I can hear her shouting swearing down the phone at hubby, so hubby puts phone down and tells me what its about this time. Apparently me the NRPP (getting good at this now) am not fit to be around her child as i've been hitting him etc. real screaming fit it was I cant be in the house when he has the child blah blah blah (we've heard it all before). so fast forward about 2 weeks hubby gets a phone call in the middle of the week and shes saying that he has to have the child tomorrow, (we both worked at that time full time) he's saying we cant just have him because we cant just not go to work we have to give notice, so she says why cant blonde bint have him and then she really starts swearing and shouting because we have a child between us too she thinks she can just leave him but I leave mine at a child minders. Now what blows my mind about this incident is she played merry hell about not wanting me in the house now shes going mad because we wont have him just at this particular time. I wish I knew what she gets out of this because i'll be blowed if I know, oh and after this incident about 3 days later we received a CSA letter:rotfl: lol to summarise shes saying your not having him cos I dont want him near HER then when it suits i'm suddenly suitable for him to be left alone with. This particular one she must have liked because it was used intermittantly

Oh btw Dutr feel free to conduct your romance with Zara here, I think shes coming round i've got a good feeling for you two by the time i'm finished this will be you and Zara I can feel it in my water.

Blonde_Bint

Please note that the only experience I have is as a NRPP. :hello:

Zara33

Blonde_Bint wrote: »

Oh btw Dutr feel free to conduct your romance with Zara here, I think shes coming round i've got a good feeling for you two by the time i'm finished this will be you and Zara I can feel it in my water.

:rotfl:cute lol Mr DUTR can you please debunk this myth that your trying to romance me :A

blimey40

ex's bitter and twisted to get every last penny out of the man who they had a child with, preventing dad to proper access to their children becasue the PWC cannot stand the fact he has moved on with his life with a new partner and cannot move on with their own lives, Sounds about right.

Not sure if seeing the child is now linked to payments? Someone will have to come along and asnwer that one.

Just rise above it and make sure the NRP pays for his child, thats the only advice I can give.

Blonde_Bint

You put up a good fight Zara I give you that, I liken Mr DUTR to Malcolm the Mounty everyone knows he always gets his man, in this case DUTR is gonna get the gal we want to know when you go on your first date:D

lol I think your right Mr Blimey. I used to say oh she must have made a mistake and oh perhaps she didnt mean it like that etc etc, we are many years on and I have come to the conclusion that her hobby is finding as many ways as possible to cause us problems.

lol remembered another. This was a particularly nasty one by her I think. We book a family holdiay, first one we ever booked child wouldve been 6 we took the kids into the holiday shop (cant think of the word) we all pick and choose what we want where etc and the kids are excited blah blah. My husband has the dates we must use, these dates have been checked with pwc and school and both have agreed these dates are fine. So holiday is booked. We have child at the weekend and tell both of the children that daddy has fully paid up the holiday now, anyway closer to the time we are due to go on holiday only 2 or 3 weeks away hubby comes in from work, PWC has been on the phone and the child is not coming on holiday with us, we cant get our money back so what do we do. As bad as it sounds we went on the holiday we couldnt force her to let him come but we felt that if we didnt go then she can do this again.

A couple of months later we booked another holiday aboard because it wasnt fair on the child missing the one he had been so excited about but we were on pins the whole time waiting for this holiday and his dad picked him up the night before we left too just in case:D

Is it just me or have other people had things like this happen to them too. How about you Blimey? anyone?

Blonde_Bint

Zara33 wrote: »

:rotfl:cute lol Mr DUTR can you please debunk this myth that your trying to romance me :A

This is better than I had hoped :jlook at that DUTR the lady is blushing and she thinks your wonderful, get in my son the door is open, better move fast because she could operate a revolving door system and you wouldnt want to get caught in that, could be painful;)

Blonde_Bint

Zara33 wrote: »

:rotfl:cute lol Mr DUTR can you please debunk this myth that your trying to romance me :A

oh DUTR look at that this its better than I thought:j the lady is blushing and she thinks your wonderful, get in my son the door is open, better move fast she could operate a revolving door system and you wouldnt want to get caught in that could be painful;)

blimey40

I divorced my ex back in 1988. Early on, she would either not answer the door or I would arrange to see my daughter with her at the park and they would never turn up. She moved and was untraceable for a few years. A chance meeting with my daughter in 2000, I was able to build a relationship with her. Later on PWC lied through her teeth about me being non-caring and now I realise went to the CSA, as far back as 1995 and gave false confident address because she felt that after years of leaving her, she would get back at me in some way.

Took money of me after this period around 2000, directly without letting the CSA know even though she was on benefits and gave me the impression nothing was going on and that went on for 4 years. I was self employed and never thought nothing of it. To put the icing on the cake, realised last year that £40,000 plus some change had been accrued because an EMA was set up by the CSA, 12 years ago

Not all cases are like this, but thats mine.

Zara33

Blonde_Bint wrote: »

You put up a good fight Zara I give you that, I liken Mr DUTR to Malcolm the Mounty everyone knows he always gets his man, in this case DUTR is gonna get the gal we want to know when you go on your first date:D

:rotfl:Your nuts! Mr DUTR is to much of a bad boy for me...

Blonde_Bint

Theres a lot of it about Blimey. Our child well husbands child and my step child is 14 now and this makes a big difference. It was sometimes almost unbearable when he was a youngster. However, I like to look at our situation like this now, we have done the up hill struggle (hopefully) and we can see some light at the end of the tunnel, i'm feeling a bit better because she hasnt taken us to court for over a year. Dont laugh its the first year we have done where we have not been having a court case or shes called the police, social services or had a csa letter sent to us. i'm feeling that this is because the child is to old to be told to lie about us. whatever, I can only make guesses its been a good year:D

I feel for the people on here who post and their children are youngsters babies and 3 5 6 year olds you know because if they have a PWC whose a no hoper then its a long hard stretch, I know because i've done one.
some comments i've found quite useful to remember like the pedigree chum argument, I had never heard that before lol. but quite right quite right. Throughout it all we just plugged away at it. just made the payments paid for the court cases etc, like you say Blimey just keep going at it. The child can see whats going on.

We were all sitting in the front room (couple of years ago this he would have been 12 ish) talking, the conversation isnt the point, this is the point, we were saying you'll just have to let you mum know about x y z you can do this this way etc, anyway the child turned around on his way out of the door and said 'blonde bint you just dont understand shes a right tw ot" as he looked at me like I was an idiot lol obviously I said nothing and his dad called him back into the room and told him off but the look on his face said it all. our pwc is a bad one but the child can see that for himself. I cant wait until he is over 18 i'd like to book a proper family holiday a real one that she cant spoil. or is he his own person by the time he is 16? I wouldnt mind him living with us but PWC wouldnt let that happen i'm not being funny but without him at her house then the money isnt coming in so there is no chance of that but if possible when he was 16 thats the way she is, so I look forward to the day when the child can say this is my decision if he would like that that is and she cant stop him because he is too old, i'm not sure if thats 16 or 19 though. that would be nice to have that relationship and have all her crup taken out of the equation lovely days to come:D

Blonde_Bint

Zara33 wrote: »

:rotfl:Your nuts! Mr DUTR is to much of a bad boy for me...

well half your statement is probably true you've got me there sweets but i'll not hear a bad word said against DUTR not a word young lady do you hear me:p too much of a bad boy indeed, what do you ladies want from a man, he's breathing isnt he, whats wrong with you. what more can you ask for