A Room With a Vent do you think you can top this

Smellyellie

I don't know what a PWC is but I'm assuming that would be me seeing as my husband has left me for a young girl and in future she will want access to our 3 children. I dread to think how she would describe me in a few years time - remember, there are 2 sides to every story. I feel quite sad reading this thread because I am at the bitter and twisted and depressed stage.

hjb123

Smellyellie wrote: »

I don't know what a PWC is but I'm assuming that would be me seeing as my husband has left me for a young girl and in future she will want access to our 3 children. I dread to think how she would describe me in a few years time - remember, there are 2 sides to every story. I feel quite sad reading this thread because I am at the bitter and twisted and depressed stage.

PWC = Parent With Care

nearlyrich

Smellyellie sorry to hear you are feeling depressed at the end of your relationship. As a PWC whose children have now made it to their early 20's I could tell you loads of stories about my !!!!less ex who didn't pay, failed to turn up on his access days amongst other things. Instead I will just say this, never use the children as a weapon or a stick to beat him with even if he seems to be doing that to you. Even though he has left for another woman don't stop him from seeing the children or ever make comments about either of them in front of them, find a trustworthy friend to moan about him and/or her to. Grit your teeth and hold you head up high you have done nothing wrong and don't let him wind you up to losing your temper etc.

Good luck..

cosmic-dust

Smellyellie wrote: »

I don't know what a PWC is but I'm assuming that would be me seeing as my husband has left me for a young girl and in future she will want access to our 3 children. I dread to think how she would describe me in a few years time - remember, there are 2 sides to every story. I feel quite sad reading this thread because I am at the bitter and twisted and depressed stage.

Some people are quite happy to label all pwc as bitter and twisted, you learn to just rise above it and get on ith your life the best way you can.

Blonde_Bint

Smellyellie wrote: »

I don't know what a PWC is but I'm assuming that would be me seeing as my husband has left me for a young girl and in future she will want access to our 3 children. I dread to think how she would describe me in a few years time - remember, there are 2 sides to every story. I feel quite sad reading this thread because I am at the bitter and twisted and depressed stage.

At least you recognise how you feel. A normal reaction to your circumstance, your human and you have feelings. You wont always feel like this, good advice given above, if you feel like having a mini explode (lol) best to come and do it in here:D you wont feel the repercussions for the months to follow. and you wont feel so alone when you read that other people are in your situation and find out the ways they have of dealing with it.