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Marathons, Money and Motivation

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  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    cafcgirl - I am afraid that every job is different - some tell you the same day - others I've heard from even weeks later....

    I agree with SavingH. Every job is different and not hearing is not necessarily a bad thing. They may be busy with other things and haven't even had the meeting to decide yet. I'm afraid it is a waiting game
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    he didnt get it
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    CAFCGirl wrote: »
    he didnt get it

    So sorry to hear that :(

    You both must be very disappointed. Hope your OH is okay
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • ShelleyC_2
    ShelleyC_2 Posts: 1,500 Forumite
    Oh b*gger.

    Anything else promising in the offing?
    Looking for the perfect home and saving to make becoming a MFW easier
    MFiT3 48103/50000 Saved So Far :j
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    he has an interview tomorrow.
    Im really bummed about it all to be really honest, like i cant even explain it right now.....
    just really not enjoying my life at the moment.... every day is hard work and a real effort to get through....

    anyway..... i havent really got the words for it all so probably just going to go straight to bed....
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • ShelleyC_2
    ShelleyC_2 Posts: 1,500 Forumite
    I know you're in a real rough patch at the moment but hang on in there. It will all come good for you because you deserve it.

    Early night is always a good plan.
    Looking for the perfect home and saving to make becoming a MFW easier
    MFiT3 48103/50000 Saved So Far :j
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    [I also reckon an early night is a good idea. New day tomorrow and your OH may get that job tomorrow.

    Fingers crossed for him
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Chick so sorry about hubby and his job.

    Sending you both some big (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • starnac
    starnac Posts: 5,946 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    you have done so well. don't knock yourself now. i know things are tough right now but you will get through it.

    i've also got my fingers crossed for your OH. haven't got many fingers left due to my OH also looking for work but i'll save one for you :D

    hope you have a good night's sleep and things look better in the morning. take care
    Goals for February
    Declutter 2/50
    Money Made £0/£200
    Overpayments £0/£200
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    sorry your oh didn't get last week's job. Hopefully tomorrow's interview is the one and you can go from strength to strength from there....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
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