How To Come Clean With Oh - Advice Please!!!!

lynzpower

Dotty anne- Im really SO pleased about how its all going.

All the very best of luck with everything!

Lynz
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D&DD

Oh Dotty thats wonderful news!!!!!!!!
I am so pleased for you thats the very worst bit over and done with so now you can start to put all that energy into sorting out the money ..TOGETHER :T Well done hun I know you were so worried so thanks for posting on here with your story as hopefully it will inspire others :T

Lewby

dottyanne wrote:

Hi just a quickie as I know its late and ive gotta go in a sec.........well ive done it - sat down with OH, was crying and it all came out - and guess what - he was brilliant - he said i wasnt a failiure and we are a team and will sort it out together.....ive been so stupid trying to do this alone when im not and with his support and you lots advice i KNOW i will be debt free

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eventually........thank you all so much who were rooting for me...youve all been so kind.......... :grouphug:

Hi Dotty,

Yours was the first post I checked this morning as I was hoping you'd speak to him last night. I could see from the last page posts that you did it and I've trawled through to find the moment you posted it on here. I'm so pleased for you (I got tears in my eyes reading your message .... how pathetic am I???) but I know what a burden you will feel has been lifted from you.

You've still got to sort it out but at least with OH supporting and sharing it with you it will be so much easier to do. Well done!!! :T :T :T

Lewby xx

fairylights_2

Dotty

I'm so glad it went ok - I know my OH was a bundle of nerves when I found out. That said, we still have bad days (even so close to clear) because it feels like we've been going at it for so long and so haven't had any spare money. At least he's said you can work on it together - and funny how he kind of knew but didn't say anything.

Good luck!

Burlesque_Babe

hi - I also looked for your post first today and thought I was going to cry - well done.

MrsMW

I've just read all your posts and think you are doing a great job. Well done for telling your DH, I'm glad it went well, I'm sure the two of you will get there in the end.
In the meantime, make sure you have a nice day off tomorrow for Mothering Sunday, let the kids pamper you a bit.
All the best.

dottyanne

Hi everyone - just got in from work.

So many kind comments and people thinking about me - it's really humbling, got another £8 in £2 coins today so ive saved £40 without even trying!! where did it all go before??

Like i said - my priority is playing catch up and setting a new budget i can stick to to save for the bills next time they come around so i wont fall behind again - any ideas or tips would be greatly appreciated as i need to really pull in my belt.......i think you all may have seen my SOA so anything you can do to help/advise would be greatly appreciated..

Thanks again to all my new friends on here......... :A

dotty. xxxx

joey-lou

I am so pleased for you.I've been reading your posts & you have had a very hard time. The only way is up

Dora_the_Explorer_5

dottyanne wrote:

Like i said - my priority is playing catch up and setting a new budget i can stick to to save for the bills next time they come around so i wont fall behind again - any ideas or tips would be greatly appreciated as i need to really pull in my belt.......i think you all may have seen my SOA so anything you can do to help/advise would be greatly appreciated..

Thanks again to all my new friends on here......... :A

dotty. xxxx

Good news that everything is out in the open. Perhaps your first step could be starting to think in terms of 'we' and not 'I' ? Good luck

BACKFRMTHEEDGE

Good luck. You can do It :money: