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The Double Debt Attack by Double Trouble
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Keeping_Motivated wrote: »I can totally understand you not wanting to go without your daughter, I think in this case mum still knows best :A and the sun and change of scenery plus being with family would be good for her so I vote that you kid nap her and don't take no for an answer, could she take with her of pals with you?
she won't go because her partner won't go - so the jury is still out
DTxx0 -
Well done on the weight loss.
Hope you can manage to persuade her to go.0 -
She is very upset tonight and her so called partner just walked out and went to a party without her so that reinforces the decision that if she doen't go we won't I would be too worried about her. Her brother came to get her thank goodness and I know he will look after her tonight.
DTxx0 -
*hugs*
I hope that things get easier for everyone eventually. Your daughter is dealing with something monumental and she is so young. I am sure that you will be the support she needs. I suppose it's hard for her partner as well as he's really young too and it sounds like he's dealing with things in a different way.
Hopefully you will all manage to get away for a break.0 -
How awful to have to see this for you, and experience it for her. I can understand you wanting to stand by with her .... I'm glad brother is nearby enough to step in for the evening.2023: the year I get to buy a car0
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Sorry to hear that he just walked off and went to a party...though who knows what he's going through.It's so hard for you all to deal with..her brother does look after her bless him xx
How are you?0 -
I'm Ok thanks Taxi but would really like a complete break away - but I know I couldn't if Laura is not with us I would be too worried about her. She had a series of disasters yesterday resulting in her bumping her car and it breaking down, missing toy story 3 because her contact fell out and getting a letter addressed to new parent from the welsh assembly telling her they had planted a tree for her new baby - it was all too much for her and I need to be around for days like that. We are having a girly night in tonight going to get a DVD so I will see if I can persuade her to come away with us.
DTxx0 -
she did have a bad day yesterday..bless her.Try and enjoy your night in.0
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**hugs**
Like most I find it hard to imagine what you are all going through and your daughter and her partner are both so young and dealing with it all in different ways.
A break would be good for everyone, hopefully she can see that she needs to have a break with a supportive family whether he does or not. I can totally understand that you would worry too much if she wasn't with you.
Hope it sorts itself out.Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0
"The days pass so fast, let's try to make each one better than the last"0 -
Enjoy your evening DT, hope you can talk her round. As the others have said, it is such a huge thing your poor daughter is going through. Hugs to you all xx0
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