csa, how do i get a low weekly payement

marksoton

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

I think you have just been with the wrong women:eek:

I'm a nice girl you know:A (I'd keep away from that Zara...she was accepting dinner dates from DUTR when you were not here. The words 'any, port and storm' are springing to mind;):rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

History would suggest you are right.

But girls stop fighting there is plenty of time for you both to be considered. :rotfl:

Blob

Hi LG

First coment, agreed, yes condoms will help, however if the girl sees this as a way out, and has done her maths, £25k to £30k is, how can I say, very tempting! If she tells him she is on pill or any of the other methods that are available, she is responsible and itis planed at least on her part!

Second, in this case he is trying to do the good thing and he should be supported for this, as we are doing! [we are on the same side again:beer:] It is not always the case as we all know that the NRP wants to take a part in the kids life. How many out there will use the system on both sides.

Zara33

Blob wrote: »

Hi LG

First coment, agreed, yes condoms will help, however if the girl sees this as a way out, and has done her maths, £25k to £30k is, how can I say, very tempting! If she tells him she is on pill or any of the other methods that are available, she is responsible and itis planed at least on her part!

Second, in this case he is trying to do the good thing and he should be supported for this, as we are doing! [we are on the same side again:beer:] It is not always the case as we all know that the NRP wants to take a part in the kids life. How many out there will use the system on both sides.

A way out of what? Do you believe everything that you are told why should sex be any different.

Blob

The social situation that they are in, no job, no education, no hope!

Get a house, get money, get bills paid.

As I say a way out.

Loopy_Girl

It's an urban myth that getting pregnant gets you a house - seriously.

Years ago maybe, now with the stark housing crisis, the fact a girl/woman is pregnant has no bearing on her ability to secure social housing.

Loopy_Girl

Blob wrote: »

Second, in this case he is trying to do the good thing and he should be supported for this

No he's not - he's trying to do the bare minimum. By his own admission he 'earns a good wage', so why is he not prepared to relinquish a fair amount to the mother of his baby as oppose to coming on here and asking how to pay a 'small weekly sum'?

Zara33

Blob wrote: »

The social situation that they are in, no job, no education, no hope!

Get a house, get money, get bills paid.

As I say a way out.

Oh i see a stereotypical single PWC :rolleyes:

marksoton

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

It's an urban myth that getting pregnant gets you a house - seriously.

Years ago maybe, now with the stark housing crisis, the fact a girl/woman is pregnant has no bearing on her ability to secure social housing.

Sorry but you must have been on the buckfast again, thats rot and you know it.

Whilst council housing policies do vary a single female with child will always be given a preferential position on the waiting list.

Blob

Even if it is BandB it is out of the situation she is in. She will with the changes that are coming get more money than I earn if I worked 55 hours a week. Not trying to upset the cart but is that what is wanted.

This is a general statment and not personal or case relevent, just the way I see it. I just hope that my daughter wont go this route! She is educated and will be able to get a good job, if there are any left when she wants one.

Soubrette

marksoton wrote: »

Sorry but you must have been on the buckfast again, thats rot and you know it.

Whilst council housing policies do vary a single female with child will always be given a preferential position on the waiting list.

Yeh - a single guy with kids would be out on the streets faster than you could say sperm bandit :rolleyes:.

I'm sure you get 100 points for being a female and -50 for being a male on the points system :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Sou