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I honestly don't know what to do anymore

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  • Phil, I'm so sorry to hear this, glad to see you back on the forum though, missed ya
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  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    I had a solution as well....been in for surgery & all now is hopefully well....if I can get through with help of others YOU CAN
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • That's good news, I wish you all the best..

    I did have one thing that made me smile today, my EHTB came to pick up dd and boy did he look rough! I of course, looked a vision of loveliness :T
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  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    My thoughts are with you. I did get worried earlier in the week when a thread went about 'where were you'. And I had noticed you missing, but didn't know why etc and did start to worry if you like. I just knew something was wrong if you like or had happened. Because I know you are around a lot for people. So did get worried when I saw you missing for a while.
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    But I survived....and you will

    I'm back to give a shoulder to lean on for anyone anytime
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • so if Phil can fight back Merlin, so can we :D

    Here's to us and a much better future :beer:
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  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    I would believe you, because I still have hope :D

    Okay, I am going to step out of the debt things now ... into another side of things. Don't tell anyone, okay? ;)

    If you want these things, they will come. Okay. ;)
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Futures are there merlin....you just have to look a little harder sometimes
    (I suffered with depression among other things for many years & could never look more forward than the next day....now i've a meeting with a consultant next week with my OH to discuss starting a family)

    Hope is out there.....trust me
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    so if Phil can fight back Merlin, so can we :D

    Well, now everyone mostly knows all my secrets etc ... :D I will tell you one further one. That's why I am on MSE, apart from my own worries over debt. To fight back, to encourage others to. More to it than that. I know that will make sense to you. ;)
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • Okay, I am going to step out of the debt things now ... into another side of things. Don't tell anyone, okay? ;)

    If you want these things, they will come. Okay. ;)

    Your secret is safe with me ;)

    I wait with great anticipation :D
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