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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Hello eileen and welcome :D

    I was the same as you drink wise and am now managing to just drink moderately at weekends only. Never thought I could do it, but it is all going fine, so lots of luck to you :T
  • nettttie
    nettttie Posts: 318 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    hi all and welcome Newbies! sounds weird, newbies - it's only my 2nd month. This group definitely gives you good motivation. I did 25/26 last June and am aiming for 20 in July. I too am trying to be a controlled drinker and the liver is the only organ that regenerates itself and it can do that in 3 days so it's worth giving up for those 4 days Mon-Thurs (I do the odd Friday as well)!

    Good Luck everyone :j
  • AvaNother
    AvaNother Posts: 47 Forumite
    Hi eileen p - I'm new too, this is my first day - there's a few of us brand new ones this month, so lets all hope we can do well.

    I now understand the wine bells. I was outside pottering, without my watch on - so no idea what time it was - and suddenly a little thought popped into my head of looking forward to a nice glass of chilled rose later surveying all today's handiwork. Extraordinary, so obviously my wine bells time is around 4.30/5pm - something to look out for in the next few days.

    Thanks Jo1972 for doing this month's counting - quite a task to keep on top of I would imagine.

    Good luck everyone for July
    July AFD target 8 actual 11
  • AvaNother
    AvaNother Posts: 47 Forumite
    nettttie wrote: »
    hi all and welcome Newbies! sounds weird, newbies - it's only my 2nd month. This group definitely gives you good motivation. I did 25/26 last June and am aiming for 20 in July. I too am trying to be a controlled drinker and the liver is the only organ that regenerates itself and it can do that in 3 days so it's worth giving up for those 4 days Mon-Thurs (I do the odd Friday as well)!

    Good Luck everyone :j
    Well done nettttie - what a great result. Did you find it easier than you thought it was going to be, or did you struggle at all? I'm only aiming for 8 in July, as I want to take it slowly, but even 8 seems quite a task. I'm hoping Day 2 will be easier having got Day 1 under my belt today.

    Just consuming my 10th cup of decaff coffee!! and about to go onto the lime/fizzy water.
    July AFD target 8 actual 11
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    I find it works best for me to set a low target anyway, which is why I set it at 10. I have always gone over my target :D and that makes you feel really pleased with yourself, but if I set myself a high target and struggled to get there and failed it would make me think I may as well not have bothered because I failed :eek: IYSWIM :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
  • TIME2GROWUP_2
    TIME2GROWUP_2 Posts: 398 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    :wave:Hi eileen and welcome to the party..

    I haven't really had a problem with the wine bells ringing, but what I do now is save my soft drink - juice usually, to have like I would have had wine, so I tend to have my first about 6 -7 pm and then i'm back on the tea by 9.. seem's to work for me... on my af days anyway...!:D
    AFD - J 19 J 11 A 2 S 10 Oct 6 N 0/?
    J GC - £282-47 A - £232-36 - S - £308-93 Oct - £399.34
    MC Hol - £153/551.88 28% PAID!!
    CHRISTMAS 09 - 9 PRESENTS SORTED...
  • Many thanks to 40sm for keeping the June list and good luck Jo with the July list.

    Congratulation to all who achieved their targets.

    :T

    On the sugar issue many of my AA friends can identify a sugar addiction since early childhood. (Me included!)


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    Living Sober.

    Some methods A.A. members have used for not drinking.

    "A simple book for complicated people"
  • AvaNother
    AvaNother Posts: 47 Forumite
    [QUOTE=RecoveringAlcoholic;

    On the sugar issue many of my AA friends can identify a sugar addiction since early childhood. (Me included!)


    .[/QUOTE]

    That's really interesting, as I've always considered myself to be a 'savoury' person rather than sweet - I'll always have a starter rather than pudding - but perhaps I was satisfying my sweet tooth with the wine.

    Lime juice with fizzy water is proving very tasty during this hot weather - must check how much sugar is in it!
    July AFD target 8 actual 11
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    115K wrote: »
    Happy Birthday Lurkio.:bdaycake::dance:I hope you have a great day.

    Thanks 115.... so far so good :D
    Hi

    Happy birthday to Lurky [IMG]http://smileys.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!/cat/36/36_23_9.gif[/IMG]25.gif

    Hope you have a great day mate :T

    Thanks buddy.... :D:D

    AvaNother wrote: »
    Happy Birthday Lurkio. Hope you have a fab day. Is it going to be easy/ok not to drink on your b/day?

    Hi and welcome Ava.... I am allowing myself a glass or two this evening ;) It's tomorrow that worries me... the "oh well, I've broken my duck for this week, may as well continue" thoughts that plagued me last year (remember, Molls? ;))

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    maz123 wrote: »
    :jgood morning,
    :kisses: Happy birthday lurkio,


    Cheers maz.....

    maman wrote: »
    :kisses3: Happy Birthday Lurkio, hope it's a really good one.

    At the risk of repeating myself..... so do I :rotfl:
    jo1972 wrote: »
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY LURKS!! Would love to stick a fantastic animated birthday smiley up but my office manager is lurking and I don't wanna get caught, so just imagine one instead :D

    xx

    Cheers me dear :kiss: fantastic animated smiley imagined... it was lovely, thanks :D


    WHY does Sir William's quote keep dropping off.....? :confused:

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
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