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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • Different_Corner
    Different_Corner Posts: 1,925 Forumite
    PIR Hope you are okay.
    Jo, you are right alcohol is over-rated. Yesterday I toiled in the garden - what I call weeding, and by 5 o'clock the reward bell was clanging. I gave in.

    Still today is another day.
    DC.
    "Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller
  • annie_d
    annie_d Posts: 933 Forumite
    Morning all...another new day for us all to havwe a go at.

    Good luck, be strong and happy surfing xxx
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
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    edited 30 May 2009 at 9:14AM
    People talking about surfing the urge is making me get The Beach Boys in my head

    "If everybody had an ocean
    Across the USA
    Then everybody'd be surfing
    Like Californi-a"

    I'm listening to that song now on Youtube, very summery anyway for this weather.;)

    21 days for me today!!!

    I have to say I wouldn't be finding this as easy if I didn't have you guys to talk to (well not that it's easy but you know what I mean!:p)
    orchid-96 wrote: »
    115k hope our kudzu helped hun I know what you mean, I have had a couple tonight just really because its Friday night and I know dh is off tomorrow so I am not on my own with the kids :confused: and to be honest I have had a headache kick in after 2 glasses!! and I now feel rubbish..(although my hayfever is pretty horrible so probably isn't helping) anyway you have done fantastic and should be sooo very proud of yourselfxx

    Thank you!:A I hope you feel better today Orchid and that your headache has gone.
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  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    edited 30 May 2009 at 10:06AM
    jo1972 wrote: »
    mo.jpg

    btw jo - that's not a mohawk.......



    THIS....

    me.jpg


    ....is a mohawk......

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • No Lurky .... Thats a toilet brush :D ...... says him with no hair :p
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • nettttie
    nettttie Posts: 318 Forumite
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    Lurkio wrote: »
    btw jo - that's not a mohawk.......



    THIS....




    ....is a mohawk......

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:


    I've just showed that DS2 - one of his mates dad went to school like that every day! we then had to google some 80's punk pictures! :eek: I still dont think he's convinced!
  • nettttie
    nettttie Posts: 318 Forumite
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    AF - I did drink last night, one bottle of red, am feeling slightly guilty though still trying to be positive and not beat myself up about it. I bought a small vodka for tonight and I didnt touch that - that's a big achievement for me! Am going to have some Kudzu this afternoon so I dont start early as I want to get my dad's circular saw out and cut some more wood. I've never used it before!!:eek::eek:

    My dad passed away 15 month ago and I've got all his tools.

    Tonight is going to be my last drink and I want to enjoy it watching the final of BGT!

    Just want to say I cant quote everybody but I really enjoy reading this thread and ty :T
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    hi sorry its been a while i managed another 2 days af..is it the end of the month allready?
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    "HOW do you vote for 'non-drinker of the month'?" Just pm budgie Maman. Sorry if this has been answered already, cant get on internet on laptop at the moment so trying with the phone which is very slow, hope my internet comes back on soon! X
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi all
    Thank you all for the thoughts for the meeting last night. Well done to all those with good AF das this month and hugs to those who are struggling. I was terrified at the meeting - shaking and everything - but it was good- I found it interesting to hear all the different stories - they were so friendly and welcoming. They said to just go to a few and see if it was for me - I didn't have to go again etc etc. I admit I was desperate for a drink when I left - like cravings really bad, but my friend had made me promise I'd go round her's after the meeting so I did and we had tea and that, and chatted with my other friend who was there.

    I wasn't sure what affect it had had on me but I do feel a kind of hope and almost excitement about things today. The feelings of shame and guilt at what I've done when drinking are very strong though today - guess because I can think a little more clearly nad it's hard not to be tempted to get rid of the thinking with more drink. I'm trying though. I'm going to go to another meeting tonight as a whole weekend without a drink is really really scary at the moment.

    Thank you again for all the best wishes and things - it really helps - much more than I can describe.
    Sea xxxxxxxxxxx
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