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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Yes his reaction was 'what took you so long?'! He certainly seemed to genuinely be happy for us at any rate. Although on the downside he has indicated hes likely to say no to funding the house development as he thinks it is too big a project.

    I am starting to freak out over how we'll afford a house and a wedding. I'm going to put all our money into lottery tickets I think....

    Will start phase 3 later today, need to get a report done this morning. Hadn't really considered looking at dresses yet - although mum has already gone into raptures that we can go to wedding fairs now. Oh Lord.
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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Being MSE according to Martin is about cutting costs not cutting back, you got the ring you wanted for cheaper than it should be and I'm sure you'll do the same with the wedding :) currently browsing that ring website, so many pretty things, sigh....

    I'd be happy with any ring though to be fair! Having looked at the chain shop jewellers we'd pay nearly £3k for that ring on the high street, so I guess I could roughly argue that it is moneysaving because we're getting it for a lot less?!
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
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    Met NIM 23/06/2008
  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Yes and if you love it then it's worth it!! Probably a blessing about the housing dev thing under the circumstances, what with your blood pressure!!
    Weightloss: 14.5/65lb
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Yeah but the profit would have paid for the house deposit!!!

    Still waiting on an email back about the level of that course in Boro Tete, haven't forgotten in all the excitement!
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
    Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off
    Met NIM 23/06/2008
  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Ooooooohhhhhh, we could MAKE your wedding dress!!!! What do you think???!!! :D

    Perhaps not...
    Weightloss: 14.5/65lb
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    OR..... we could make fancy dress costumes for a hen party! You're supposed to look ridiculous then!
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
    Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off
    Met NIM 23/06/2008
  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Heeeyyy, not everything we make will look ridiculous!!
    Weightloss: 14.5/65lb
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Oh and in money news, we made £329 in the last 3 days selling stuff on Ebay. When we come back from Ireland we're going to have a massive ebay session as money is going to be even scarier now trying to save for a wedding and a house. I estimate we're going to need to save about £40k still to cover both. Combined take home salary over 1 year - £30,780. Eeek!!!
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
    Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off
    Met NIM 23/06/2008
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Heeeyyy, not everything we make will look ridiculous!!

    No but if we wander about wearing placemats we might well get arrested for indecent exposure.
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
    Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off
    Met NIM 23/06/2008
  • Poolie
    Poolie Posts: 1,882 Forumite
    Dinah93 wrote: »
    So, a bit of news.....
    I'm engaged!!!!!

    Congratulations to you and NIM.
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