The ultimate incentive worked! Now onto phase two

Tete_en_l'Air

Dinah93 wrote: »

Any indication from your fella that he's headed that way Tete?

Not one really Need to have a serious talk I know to make sure that we both want the same things from life, but I'm scared to in case we don't because I'm so happy now, if you know what I mean..

Lovely dress, particularly like the pink sash

Birdie85

I can't see your DOTD Dinah because work have blocked it, will look tonight!
I have decided that I have to have a floaty grecian style dress but I still like looking at the other dresses! I may even suffer with that last dress I posted!

Dinah93

Tete_en_l'Air wrote: »

Not one really Need to have a serious talk I know to make sure that we both want the same things from life, but I'm scared to in case we don't because I'm so happy now, if you know what I mean..

Yeah I know exactly what you mean, but it is very important to know, because you don't want to spend 3 years or something together only to find you want completely different things, kids/no kids and marriage/no marriage being the big ones.

Tete_en_l'Air

Dinah93 wrote: »

Yeah I know exactly what you mean, but it is very important to know, because you don't want to spend 3 years or something together only to find you want completely different things, kids/no kids and marriage/no marriage being the big ones.

I know But it's scary. And then I think, what if, and we did break up, I can't imagine finding anyone as brilliant ever again, and will end up unmarried and childless anyway AND lonely..?

Dinah93

New thread ladies (and Poolie and NIM), go make yourselves at home

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?p=24493445#post24493445

Dinah93

I think if you're as in tune as you seem to be Tete, then you probably share the same priorities, but you still need to ask. Even if you see things a bit differently there may be areas open for compromise.

Tete_en_l'Air

Aye, might set myself a target to get around to having a discussion by September! Off to look at new thread ...

Cinny91

*packs up stuff* Bye old thread!!

Poolie

I will put the rubbish out when I leave.

If somebody does not put light on in the next 2 days, I am coming to get the lightbulbs - very MSE - hopefully they are energy saving ones.

<Throughs bin bag full on trash (which is not ebayable) down rubbish chute [Clunk]> <Closes door and turns the lock (Thinks to myself "This is like pandaoras box - It should never be opened")>