The ultimate incentive worked! Now onto phase two

wendz86

Nothing like a marriage debate in the morning ey! It is all up to personal choice what people do and I thinkt it would be stupid for people to get married if they weren't with the right person. I don't think anyone can say what is the right choice though.

Tete_en_l'Air

Ooh they look lovely Cinny! Are you staying in Darcy? And will your OH wear a fetching dressing gown on the deck like that man?

Are you definitely going to Japan Dinah? Whereabouts? One of those holidays from the company you showed us a while back that I can't remember the name of?

wendz86

The lodge sounds lovely Cinny. I might have a little look into doing something my birthday week in October as OH is off too. Is half term unfortunately though. Maybe will wiat till November and do something for 5 year anniversary.

Dinah93

We're hoping to go yes, its what we're aiming for at any rate. I'm not going to say we WILL go as anything could happen and our money might be tied up to something else by then (or could need a honeymoon somewhere with less travelling about :rolleyes:)

We're fancing one of those trips where you basically travel all over for 2 weeks. Scarily close to backpacking though!

wendz86

I could do something like that for two weeks, just not for months. I like my home comforts too much!

Dinah93

Oh grief no, this would be for 15-16 days, maybe 3 weeks if we stay on a little at the beginning or end.

Birdie85

Hi! I'm finally back at work and I'm so busy it feels like I've never had time off! Grrr.
It's funny that you're having this marriage discussion, yesterday I mentioned to OH that it'll be weird calling him my Husband and he went all white and shaky! He's been concentrating so much on the stag do, wedding and honeymoon that he forgot that he'll be a husband at the end of it all! I pretty much had to talk him down from a ledge! LOL! I've told him to get his head around the idea though as he's not backing out now!
Those lodges look amazing Cinny! I'm quite tempted myself!

Flower08

Birdie85 wrote: »

yesterday I mentioned to OH that it'll be weird calling him my Husband and he went all white and shaky!

:rotfl::rotfl:Bless him!

Afternoon everyone!

Well today is the day that i am doing the baking ready for OHs birthday tomorrow, im slightly nervous about it. I have already told OH that i might need the car this afternoon - so i can go to tescos if it all goes wrong lol

Nothing much else to report here really, managed to pay another £15 off natwest cc, woo :T but apart from that just plodding along again. Have had some bids on ebay things and quite a few watchers so fingers crossed.

Cinny the cottage looks lovely, i want to go!

Birdie85

I'm sure the baking will go great Flower!:)
I forgot to say part of the grr about work is that they're sending me to another warehouse/office (in Chorley!) on Monday for 2 weeks! It's closing down and loads of staff have left so I'm being drafted in to work there as cover and to learn some new systems in case we need it at our place in time. OH is gutted that he's being left at home whilst I 'swan about' in a hotel! I'd much rather stay at home!

Flower08

Think baking went ok. Well it looks ok, will see what OHs reaction is - and he will be brutally honest so i'll know for definate lol.
Im all excited for him, wish it was my birthday! Lots of cards have come through the post for him this morning, i've just wrapped all his presents and put some balloons up lol