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Snaggles

ZTD wrote: »

The answer to that is easy - find nice ones. Yes, they do exist...

Well, I tried that already - I married a 'nice one'. But over the years he changed into a 'can't really be bothered' one, despite me trying my hardest to keep the marriage alive.

So you can't win, whatever you do. :rolleyes:

Snaggles

Keeping_Positive wrote: »

New Snaggles Diary :j

Would love a jaffa but just eaten two crunchies this morning so better not.

Glda to hear kids doing well and that the SOA isnt as bad as first thought. Have you spoken to the health visitor yet ref night stuff? Also although you have 101 things to do, please prioritise the DLA form it should make a big difference.

Good luck with anaesthetist .

Pleased to say the anaesthetist seems quite enthusiastic about going for a drink next week - just hope he means it!

I haven't spoken to the health visitor yet but I've made a doctors appointment to talk about Ryan going back on the tablets he had that helped with his night time wetting. If she says yes, we will give them another try - if not, I will ask about the pyjama pants on prescription.

Appointment is on Thursday, so will keep my fingers crossed!

And I promise I will have another look at the DLA thing....

Snaggles

Gemmzie wrote: »

I wish I knew where though, and that I would be attracted to them.

Think you've hit the nail on the head!

Can nice guys really be sexy? Is it a 'one or the other' thing?

I'm sure some people must have nice partners who they find attractive, but it's rare to still have lust and passion after you've been together for a long time (Spud seems to manage it though, and I'm sure there are others).

I think I will still fancy Dave when I'm 80, although if we had stayed together, I would have died of stress-induced heart attack at about age 40 anyway... :rotfl:

spud30

Mine is

Keeping_Positive

When I get peed off with OH I just wonder what else is out there? He aint perfect but then neither am I.

If I were you get whats best out of Dave before the next Mr right comes along! Mercenary (sp) yes but then again he has shown that he is as well.

ZTD

Gemmzie wrote: »

I wish I knew where though, and that I would be attracted to them.

Well that's the rub - if kindness doesn't attract you, then you can't really complain when the guys you choose don't come with it.

And to answer another question, yes there are guys out there who are kind, generous, good dancers, gorgeous looking, rich and fantastic in bed - you just have to prise them from the cold dead fingers of their partner who is similarly endowed.

Shame I can't dance...

Gemmzie

Kindness does but it makes me uncomfortable, I'm used to being treated badly so I expect it. Guy I went on a date with, really nice, compliments me and is sweet - any spark? Nope. But then maybe the spark is the danger warning

LouiseJ

Snaggles there is such a thing as a happy ending, but the journey to find it is fraught with danger and heartache.......and thats just me being with 1 man:rotfl::rolleyes:

But it can work with a nice guy:D

Snaggles

spud30 wrote: »

Mine is

Hehe, I know - I name-checked you in my post, did you notice?

spud30

Snaggles wrote: »

Hehe, I know - I name-checked you in my post, did you notice?

oh yeah :rotfl: