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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    spud30 wrote: »
    Aww bless him. Twunty fella's giving you his permission to go get someoone else. Isnt that kind of him :rolleyes: ;)

    Awww.....I know.....bless.......cute, isn't it...... :rolleyes: :cool:
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  • beanielou
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  • Keeping_Motivated
    Keeping_Motivated Posts: 3,653 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    But then 'the ex' (yes, THAT one) texted, and asked if I'd got anywhere with him, and like an idiot I told him.......and since then I've had 2 texts, one to inform me he is on a date with a girl he has seen a few times now, and another telling me he really likes her. :(

    He is purposely trying to hurt me, I know - so why am I letting it bother me. :(

    Sorry I'm a lurker on your thread but just had to say that if he really likes this girl then why is he texting YOU while actually out on a date with her? Could his text to you not have waited until he was alone rather than mid date? What a charmer he is :rolleyes:
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Awww.....I know.....bless.......cute, isn't it...... :rolleyes: :cool:

    He's all heart hun :rolleyes:
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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    How did I miss you diary Snags! Have just caught up. Your ex !!!!!!, sounds so much like the guy I'm dealing with - it's so hard trying to do without them though. :(
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Gemmzie wrote: »
    How did I miss you diary Snags! Have just caught up. Your ex !!!!!!, sounds so much like the guy I'm dealing with - it's so hard trying to do without them though. :(

    The answer to that is easy - find nice ones. Yes, they do exist...
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Keeping_Motivated wrote: »
    Sorry I'm a lurker on your thread but just had to say that if he really likes this girl then why is he texting YOU while actually out on a date with her? Could his text to you not have waited until he was alone rather than mid date? What a charmer he is :rolleyes:

    Well, it's only a few weeks ago that he was saying he was in love with me and I was his world.....so who knows what goes on in his head. I agree, if he is texting me from the date, it does say something about his true feelings for her.

    When we split up he said it was because we had something really good but he wasn't ready for a relationship and he got scared. Since then though he has plunged headlong into a series of relationships, all with girls he has 'really liked'. But he still wants to keep me hanging on waiting for him I think.

    I'm not sure he's capable of loving anyone but himself - he's 34 with 2 failed marriages and 20-odd other failed relationships.

    We did have something though - but he has thrown it away now.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Gemmzie wrote: »
    How did I miss you diary Snags! Have just caught up. Your ex !!!!!!, sounds so much like the guy I'm dealing with - it's so hard trying to do without them though. :(

    Yuck, sorry you are going through something similar. It's nasty, but I think it does get easier. I'm not as upset now as I was the first hundred-odd times he hurt me... :rolleyes:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    The answer to that is easy - find nice ones. Yes, they do exist...

    I wish I knew where though, and that I would be attracted to them.
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • Keeping_Positive
    Keeping_Positive Posts: 4,750 Forumite
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    New Snaggles Diary :j

    Would love a jaffa but just eaten two crunchies this morning :o so better not.

    Glda to hear kids doing well and that the SOA isnt as bad as first thought. Have you spoken to the health visitor yet ref night stuff? Also although you have 101 things to do, please prioritise the DLA form it should make a big difference.

    Good luck with anaesthetist ;).
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