Spending, saving, snogging and smiling!

Snaggles

The kids are great thanks, Natasha is almost two, and has taken the 'terrible twos' a bit too literally, changing almost overnight from an adorable angel to a stroppy, opinionated little monkey!

She's so funny though, I have to turn my face away so she doesn't see me laughing sometimes!

Ryan is an absolute star, he is really trying very hard to keep his temper. We are working on not swearing at the moment, because his outbursts tend to involve a lot of 'f' words. So we have a swear box, and if either of us swear, we put 5p in. I think he is doing better than me at the moment! :rotfl:

Re the size thing - I don't think it makes much difference unless they're at the very extremes of the scale! But being great in the bedroom (or even frankly mindblowing in the bedroom) doesn't make up for lack of personality, integrity and basic human decency. :mad:

Snaggles

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

ooooooooo Snags very good new diary!

Am all caught up and think Dave is a prat, I second BB's suggestion to act as if it doesn't bother you.

Your SOA looks good, better then you thought ah?

I must do one of those.........

I shall subscribe here xxx

Hi Buffy :wave: welcome, can I offer you a jaffa cake? Perhaps some lettuce for the snails?

Yes, I was a bit relieved when I realised my first SOA was wrong......you'd think I'd know how to do an SOA by now wouldn't you!!! :rolleyes:

I continued to ignore him and got another slightly more trite message (think he has realised he's peed me off) saying what he was trying to say (albeit badly) was that I should go and get the anaesthetist guy if that's what I want.

Idiot - like I would take relationship advice from someone who has spent the last 6 months playing games with my head and my heart, and is continuing to hurt me even though he doesn't want me any more. :mad:

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

Hi Buffy :wave: welcome, can I offer you a jaffa cake? Perhaps some lettuce for the snails?

Yes, I was a bit relieved when I realised my first SOA was wrong......you'd think I'd know how to do an SOA by now wouldn't you!!! :rolleyes:

I continued to ignore him and got another slightly more trite message (think he has realised he's peed me off) saying what he was trying to say (albeit badly) was that I should go and get the anaesthetist guy if that's what I want.

Idiot - like I would take relationship advice from someone who has spent the last 6 months playing games with my head and my heart, and is continuing to hurt me even though he doesn't want me any more. :mad:

He's an expert: EX = has been, spurt = drip under pressure.

elantan

great to hear the kids are doing well ...even if it is doing the things they are meant to but driving you nuts doing it ...and you are totally right a guy could be the best lover in the world but if he dont have the persoanlity he aint no good ...hark whose talking i have only been with one bloke ...but i would assume that is the way it is lol

Snaggles

Hehehe Zed, love it!

El, the more men I meet, the more I am thinking about staying single forever. (our lovely DFW men excluded of course )

GeorgeUK

Just popped in to see how things are going.
At least you haven't kileld anyone yet.

Going to pop back out now - while i still can...

Sea78

ooh snaggles - hun! Honestly, you are so much better than this. It makes me sad to read that he's messing you around and being a !!!!er. Easier said than done, but are you sure you even want contact with this !!!!!? Perhaps deleting him from your life would be hard but best?

On the other thing - I have experienced the extreme. Jesus.


xxxxxxx

spud30

Snaggles wrote: »

Hi Buffy :wave: welcome, can I offer you a jaffa cake? Perhaps some lettuce for the snails?

Yes, I was a bit relieved when I realised my first SOA was wrong......you'd think I'd know how to do an SOA by now wouldn't you!!! :rolleyes:

I continued to ignore him and got another slightly more trite message (think he has realised he's peed me off) saying what he was trying to say (albeit badly) was that I should go and get the anaesthetist guy if that's what I want.

Idiot - like I would take relationship advice from someone who has spent the last 6 months playing games with my head and my heart, and is continuing to hurt me even though he doesn't want me any more. :mad:

Aww bless him. Twunty fella's giving you his permission to go get someoone else. Isnt that kind of him :rolleyes:

Snaggles

GeorgeUK wrote: »

Just popped in to see how things are going.
At least you haven't kileld anyone yet.

Yet.....

Going to pop back out now - while i still can...

Nooo.....stay...... *pulls menacing face* I INSIST.

Snaggles

Sea78 wrote: »

ooh snaggles - hun! Honestly, you are so much better than this. It makes me sad to read that he's messing you around and being a !!!!er. Easier said than done, but are you sure you even want contact with this !!!!!? Perhaps deleting him from your life would be hard but best?

On the other thing - I have experienced the extreme. Jesus.


xxxxxxx

Hiya Sea! :wave:

I stayed away from him completely for about a month and it was so so hard, I missed him every day and couldn't stop crying. So I don't want to make it a definite 'I'll never speak to him again'.

For all his faults, there are some genuinely nice things about him - not enough for me to forgive and forget, and still want to be with him, but enough to make it difficult to just walk away.

I'm hoping it will just happen gradually. But I'm sure he wont let it happen that way - he will want it to be dramatic and upsetting, so that he has 'won'. Silly little boy. :rolleyes: