Burlesque Babe's Re-building life but back in debt diary

moonlightpjs

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

in floods of tears

Whhhhhhhhoooooooooooooooossssssssssssshhhhhhhhh

:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

BB babe, he is not worth one of your tears, never mind floods, in fact the only thing he needs them for is to drown himself in them and he can have some of mine to help him along

How can someone treat someone as beautiful as you (inside and out) like that is beyond me .............................

Sorry if I am speaking out of turn

wwwwhhhhhhhhoooooosssssssshhhhhhh (I really love that, sad eh?) :rotfl:

Snaggles

Well said Weller :T

spud30

Well said, and great whooooshing Weller :T

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

Anyway, I've laid it on the line. When he said that his sport was important and he always chose it over doing anything with me because he can only afford one (like a walk in a wood costs anything), then I said he needs to think hard about the priorities in his life because if sport is more important than me -and always will be - then he might as well be single.

I would never ask him - or any man - to give up their hobbies etc, but I do want to be high enough up the pecking order to be given consideration as to what they are going to be doing from day to day.

What do you get out of this relationship? You are not getting companionship, because of his social "habits" - so what are you getting?

Fearing change is not an option.

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

but in other news..........I have just got back from my teaching qual. class and I have been offered 10 hours teaching. ..............teaching IT :eek: (never taught anything in that subject before, but volunteered :rolleyes:)..........starting this Saturday :eek::eek::eek::eek:

IT is easy...trust me...

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

Carp, this last minute teaching is going to turn my week upside down getting the intial stuff together. It will be good in my end of June pay packet, but the planning etc will eat up a bit of AQA time......:rolleyes:

Even with the "free" preparation time, it pays better than AQA.

Burlesque_Babe

Weller posted on my diary :j:j:j:j:j:T

Cheers guys, I guess I need to see how he is when he appears tongiht.....he's popped in because something he needed has gone and apparently he's gone to see a friend who needs some advice on money they are owed for their business.......bad timing really, goodness knows what time he will be here....


Went to the tutor staff meeting and picked up another 2 hours teaching!! So that's 12 hours picked up today for the end of May, a bit in June and now 2 hours in July. I think someone upstairs was listening and thought they would help out so asked Fate to get involved.

However, I've got plenty to be getting on with now, cheers God, and next time I put out a plea to help my situation, if you could organise Fate a bit better so it gives me a bit more notice ?? :rotfl:

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

Cheers guys, I guess I need to see how he is when he appears tongiht.....

His is a chronic behaviour pattern. One day is not going to change anything. You've confronted him before, and now he knows he just has to outwait you, and you'll both fall back in to your old behaviour patterned aka "rut".

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

he's popped in because something he needed has gone and apparently he's gone to see a friend who needs some advice on money they are owed for their business.......bad timing really, goodness knows what time he will be here....

Do these look to you like you're starting up the old excuses? They do to me.

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

Went to the tutor staff meeting and picked up another 2 hours teaching!! So that's 12 hours picked up today for the end of May, a bit in June and now 2 hours in July. I think someone upstairs was listening and thought they would help out so asked Fate to get involved.

However, I've got plenty to be getting on with now, cheers God, and next time I put out a plea to help my situation, if you could organise Fate a bit better so it gives me a bit more notice ?? :rotfl:

No matter if Fate is with you or against you, Fate offers things only one way: Good and hard... :eek:

LouiseJ

No matter if Fate is with you or against you, Fate offers things only one way: Good and hard... :eek:

I knew I was a big fan of Fate for a reason:A

Buffythedebtslayer

really pleased about the extra teaching BB that is excellent news. I wish I could think of something constructive to say about bloke. but I really can't not without being really rude.

I have met you. You are lovely. friendly kind and funny. remember these things please.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

ZTD

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

really pleased about the extra teaching BB that is excellent news. I wish I could think of something constructive to say about bloke. but I really can't not without being really rude.

You want something constructive about him? Concrete wellies....

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

I have met you. You are lovely. friendly kind and funny. remember these things please.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

^^^^ What she said...