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Weekly Flylady Thread 13th April 2009

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  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    AnW'sMum, just checked, it is fixed, the skewers sound like an idea for the cheese string and OH is bringing the strong hoover down on Friday so that should do the bits down there(caravan hoover is either dying or needs a new/clean filter as it is losing suction).
    Will have a looksee in tesco later on, Thanks

    Need to put some slap on and then make a move before I become permanantly fixed to the seat, I have had a shower so thats a start!!!!
  • Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    [STRIKE]strip the bedding and get it washed.. air the duvet
    [/STRIKE]
    Mattress vacuumed turned vacuumed other side and redress bed
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Deal with the floordrobe
    [/STRIKE]
    Wash the windows
    Wipe all the doors and frames upstairs
    Level Three
    Vacuum floors
    Tidy a cupboard/chest of drawers
    Dust and deweb.. inc bed frame!!

    Wednesday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One
    Clean the floors in these rooms
    [STRIKE]De-grot the loo/bath/shower/sink etc
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wash the windows
    [/STRIKE]
    Empty and clean out the bins
    [STRIKE]Clear and clean a shelf or cupboard and put back only the necessary items
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Clear the desk of mess and mush.. get rid of those
    Wash down ALL the dining chairs.. :D
    [STRIKE]Drag out the pc desk and clear under and behind it ... see how good I am to you lot!?
    [/STRIKE] don't have one, can I do toy clearing instead?


    In my HHC no2 I did these things above, and discovered I can't pay money to credit card company over phone, how stupid! actually I didn't do all these things as some done earlier, but this is where I'm up to!
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Rampant Recycler
    I can't get organised today. Was supposed to have been at a meeting with Social Services today, but they rang and cancelled 15mins before I was due to go out of the door.! So I am not in housework mode. In a "posh" frock for a start. Well a nice one anyway. So its not the kind of thing I was planning to wear to clear the clutter etc!.
    Feeling a bit sick at the moment too, thats not helping. I think that I did too much yesterday, and the pain could possibly be why I feel sick.
    So my Wednesday list will have to wait for a bit longer. (Luckily last week the whole house was blitzed ready for the estate agent to show someone around, so its not so bad at the moment.,)
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    SSL, did have counseling once, then she went down with a terrible illness and couldn’t do it anymore! I think I’d like to try CBT which teaches you to challenge the wrong thoughts you have like “I am useless” and helps you to change them into good thoughts.
    Thanks Soappie, I thought at first you wanted me to see you’ve thrown out a tatty old duvet cover and one chewed and useless dog lead and you wanted me to do some decluttering too! Then I realised what you really meant! Thaaaaaannnnnkkkk yooooooouuuuu!

    Grateful – I like your style! That’s a great philosophy for life! I already do that without realising, it feels selfish sometimes, but I cope much better when I listen to my body and do what it asks!
    Mummyof5 Glad to hear you can be on here all the time now!
    Thanks Sunnygirl with the pink shoes, you are kind. My DR is good and so is DH, he really helps me to keep going.
    Toots, I’m so glad your treatment went so well. I’m sure the rest of it will go really smoothly now! I was thinking of you at 3 today
    LL – you probably have found me on FB via FFP, how many more abbreviations can I add and why is abbreviation such a long word? My initials are AW! Thanks for you kind words too. Don’t worry about the AD’s, I always think if I had diabetes or a heart condition I would take the meds and it’s just the same really.
    Thanks Rach, Mummyof5, Valli, 3tabbycats, Boddy, Shazba, Jo, Toochoosey and Emily for the hugs and kind word
    Welcome Daydreambeliever
    Hugs DeniseNZ
    Toots so glad your treatment went well and that you are going to have a lovely day today with your visitors!
    WHAT DOES POGGERED MEAN????
    Jill, you have really hit the nail on the head – it’s not really that I want to be dead, it’s just it feels like that is the only way to make the pain stop. I hope that you have more and more good days and the bad days get less. Having low self esteem is a big part of it, and I’m the same. I feel so useless sometimes and manage to convince myself that my DH and friends and family would be better off without me because then they wouldn’t have to look after me anymore. I’m doing a bit better today, just feel a bit muzzy headed. I’m sorry your friends aren’t very sympathetic, please keep posting about how you are and PM me any time as we will give you the support you need.
    I hope you manage to sort out the money problems. I was hoping not to have to fill up the car before the rent day, but we had to last night. Fortunately I’d just got a £10 Sainsbury voucher from Toluna so that paid for the petrol! All those flippin surveys were worth it in the end!
    I like your band thing – you would be good on PopMaster on Radio 2 to do the 3 in 10! You’d be able to name 3 songs by any band in 10 seconds!

    Right everyone, I’ve still not caught up beyond p.26. Got to stop reading this and go and do something! I only woke up at 10:30 – ooops!

    I’m off to the bank. DH gave me the £50 for diesel his mum gave him, and he took someone to hospital yesterday who gave him another £20, and we’ve both looked in our stashes of £1 and £2 coins, and we have managed to get £60 between us from there. And I’ve checked the online bank and we are only £20 shy of the rent now! Don’t know how that happened! The online bank is a mystery to me. By tomorrow it will probably say we are a million pounds short so I’m still going to put this money in, and we can always take it out again after. I’d rather not be fined again this month! That would be the first time ever in the whole of history we have not been fined when the rent goes out!

    When I come back I promise to fly. Promise!

    Sorry for such a long post. Adios
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • mOZzy_2
    mOZzy_2 Posts: 751 Forumite
    25 recycling
    tidied utility room
    tidied pc desk
    Filing
    swept under pc desk
    cleaned pc desk and surrounding
    cleaned all upstairs windows
    made all beds
    tidied all rooms
    cleaned bathroom (dh did that!)
    polished all furniture
    watered all plants




    all left to do is the kitchen ... again :rolleyes:
    and the bins



    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room DONE :D

    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing DONE :D

    Wednesday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One

    Level Two
    Empty and clean out the bins
    Level Three

    Extras
    1. Wipe hand rails on stairs
    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the cutlery drawer!
    2. Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
  • nicki_2
    nicki_2 Posts: 7,321 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic I've been Money Tipped!
    pigpen wrote: »
    nicki wrote:
    ... she got even more for her birthday of Ex's family even though I said no clothes :mad:
    Give them a list of what they CAN buy her instead then.. shoes, coats certain games etc... works for us!!

    I tried that....it still doesn't work :rolleyes: Even a list of what she wants she doesn't get. They just don't seem to listen :mad:
    Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.
    Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!
  • TAG
    TAG Posts: 2,823 Forumite
    edited 15 April 2009 at 5:12PM
    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    :j:jALL DONE TOOTS!!!
    :j:j

    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level Three
    Vacuum floors

    Wednesday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    [STRIKE]Level One[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Clean the floors in these rooms[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]De-grot the loo/bath/shower/sink etc[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wash the windows[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Empty and clean out the bins[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Clear and clean a shelf or cupboard and put back only the necessary items[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Clear the desk of mess and mush.. get rid of those

    Extras - binbag list! This is my favourite!
    1. fill a binbag for the bin
    2. fill a binbag for a friend
    3. fill a binbag for recycling!
    I've rinsed all the bleach off the grout, just letting it dry off a bit before I white vinegar it. And I de limescaled the shower head and the leady bit :o oh and the bat plug. All are pretty and shiny now:D
  • SarahShattered
    SarahShattered Posts: 2,223 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    edited 15 April 2009 at 12:01PM
    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Level Two
    Wipe all the doors and frames upstairs
    Wednesday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    DD1 cleaned the rest of the BR, I'm sure she's done it really well, but I haven't been in there yet! WTG Izzi
    Level Three
    Clear the desk of mess and mush.. get rid of those
    [STRIKE]Wash down ALL the dining chairs.[/STRIKE]. :D DD2 did this... fantastic job!! Well done Naomi.
    Drag out the pc desk and clear under and behind it ... see how good I am to you lot!? I can't move it alone, but I can put the hoover down the back & sides, I do hope that counts.

    In my HHC I finished those bits in the bedroom, but mostly sorted through the cupboard which now houses the clean washing waiting to be sorted and dispatched. DDs now putting away their clean clothes... they always huff and strop till they're reminded that I've washed/dried and folded them all for them. :p

    ETA : 78/200
    MMSSB Club Founder Member
    'Mean Mummies that set and stick to boundaries' :p

  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Hi,

    In my 4th HHC i

    Sorted through my wardrobe for unwanted clothes

    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the cutlery drawer!
    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Deal with the floordrobe
    Wash the windows
    Wipe all the doors and frames upstairs
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Vacuum floors
    [STRIKE]Tidy a cupboard/chest of drawers
    Dust and deweb.. inc bed frame!!
    [/STRIKE]


    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]
      1. Sort out your own shoes and bags.. can any be rehomed?
      2. Wipe hand rails on stairs
      [/STRIKE]
    Wednesday - bathroom, study and other grotty places! Done can i have another star please Toots
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clear the desk of mess and mush.. get rid of those
    Drag out the pc desk and clear under and behind it ... see how good I am to you lot!?
    [/STRIKE]

    Extras - binbag list! This is my favourite!
    1. fill a binbag for the bin
    2. fill a binbag for recycling!
    My Extras
    1. HHE at least ( to make up for all the chocolate & cake i've eaten in the last 2 days:eek:)
    2. Transfer money
    3. Sort paperwork
    4. Start on Ds1's room:eek:
    5. Get pics printed off
    6. Photo, weigh, & list at least 5 items on ebay
    7. [STRIKE]
    8. Sort vac pacs in bedroom
    9. [/STRIKE]Put bin out
    54/200

    I think i'll leave hoovering my room until i do the kids rooms. Lunch now i think then i'll spend some time playing with DS2 before i make a start on my ebaying and Ds1's room.:eek:
  • nicki wrote: »
    I tried that....it still doesn't work :rolleyes: Even a list of what she wants she doesn't get. They just don't seem to listen :mad:
    We have that problem with biological father and grandparents of DD1, its as though they think they are getting the upperhand by buying tarty, inappropriate and ill fitting clothing, instead of something she needs:mad:
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
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