MSE Pregnancy Club IX

searching_me

mrsapple wrote: »

Glad i am normal. Skin to skin? Naked in front of everyone - oh god - i can't think that far ahead.

after your foofs (love that word) has been on show for the world to see ... your b00bies are nothing :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:x

mrsapple_2

mmmm i still think it is best to think in small steps as i'm still frightened by the whole prospect ... 1st step doctors monday.

always29

Feeling most sorry for myself today, stuck in the office, trousers very uncomfortable and two other ladies in the office have just announced they are 12 weeks and while I am chuffed to bits for them (we are a very female, family oriented firm so these things are lovely round here!) can't help thinking this little one isn't going to stick around. To top it all I had a bad appointment with new nurse - I have a history of mildly high blood pressure and have been on and off meds and monitoring for the last 10 years but it seems its high again and I am only 8 weeks (today!) and the nurse couldn't understand why I wasnt on medication for it (I don't know why previous previous GP took me off it, I can't remember!). Anyway have appointment with GP next week - as an after thought, she said and he will see you about your antenatal appointments too. I know you can't do medical advice on here but just feeling really down on here that my health could well be screwing this up. My BMI has been 27-30 for years so that doesn't help but I've never smoked, haven't drunk for weeks and my diet isn't all that bad but my gym going has been non-existent the last 3/4 weeks since ectopic scare and hospital - unfortunately my genes aren't in my favour though as we have a tendency towards hypertension in my family even though I am the fattest by a very very very long way. Was really grumpy with DP last night and this morning, I can't seem to get my worries into rational words with him as I know he is worried too! How silly is that? Can you diet in pregnancy? Would that help? Just being bleedin' miserable today. I'll go now!

tiamai_d

LCK73 wrote: »

HELP. Someone tell me this isn't true. My preggie sickness just hasn't gone at 13 weeks and my midwife has said if it was going to go it would have worn off by now, so I can only hope that it'll disappear by week 16. If not then I'm in for the duration. Oh god, this is awful. Does anyone have any glimmers of hope from their situations that might counter this?

Mine didn't ease up till 15 weeks. With DS2 I had hyper-emesis till about 24 weeks after that I just felt sick but had stopped throwing up several times a day.

Skin to skin, DS1 had skin to skin with me after he was born (and resuscitated), but poor DS2 had to wait till day 4 before I could hold him and day 5 till he had skin to skin. He was whisked into an incubator and I was out for 3 days.

Back !!!!!!! hurts! :mad: Can't like down, can't stand up straight, can only sit leaning forward. But luckily DH is off tomorrow, and he is going to help me into a bath later on. He came home early to get the kids too. Although saint he aint! He is making fun of me by walking like Igor :mad: And if it wasn't for all the handrails in this house going up stairs and in the bathroom, I'd be screwed.

searching_me

mrsapple wrote: »

mmmm i still think it is best to think in small steps as i'm still frightened by the whole prospect ... 1st step doctors monday.

i was like that at first but now im had more viewings by docs etc then the british museum i couldnt careless anymore :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:x

searching_me

always i wouldnt diet you got enough on your plate then worrying about what your eating ... its healthy to put weight on during pregnancy enjoy it while you can x

skintchick

always29 wrote: »

Feeling most sorry for myself today, stuck in the office, trousers very uncomfortable and two other ladies in the office have just announced they are 12 weeks and while I am chuffed to bits for them (we are a very female, family oriented firm so these things are lovely round here!) can't help thinking this little one isn't going to stick around. To top it all I had a bad appointment with new nurse - I have a history of mildly high blood pressure and have been on and off meds and monitoring for the last 10 years but it seems its high again and I am only 8 weeks (today!) and the nurse couldn't understand why I wasnt on medication for it (I don't know why previous previous GP took me off it, I can't remember!). Anyway have appointment with GP next week - as an after thought, she said and he will see you about your antenatal appointments too. I know you can't do medical advice on here but just feeling really down on here that my health could well be screwing this up. My BMI has been 27-30 for years so that doesn't help but I've never smoked, haven't drunk for weeks and my diet isn't all that bad but my gym going has been non-existent the last 3/4 weeks since ectopic scare and hospital - unfortunately my genes aren't in my favour though as we have a tendency towards hypertension in my family even though I am the fattest by a very very very long way. Was really grumpy with DP last night and this morning, I can't seem to get my worries into rational words with him as I know he is worried too! How silly is that? Can you diet in pregnancy? Would that help? Just being bleedin' miserable today. I'll go now!

I'm sorry you're feeling down. (((hugs))) But please don't diet, just eat healthily; it's not good for the baby to diet.

tiamai_d

always29 wrote: »

Feeling most sorry for myself today, stuck in the office, trousers very uncomfortable and two other ladies in the office have just announced they are 12 weeks and while I am chuffed to bits for them (we are a very female, family oriented firm so these things are lovely round here!) can't help thinking this little one isn't going to stick around. To top it all I had a bad appointment with new nurse - I have a history of mildly high blood pressure and have been on and off meds and monitoring for the last 10 years but it seems its high again and I am only 8 weeks (today!) and the nurse couldn't understand why I wasnt on medication for it (I don't know why previous previous GP took me off it, I can't remember!). Anyway have appointment with GP next week - as an after thought, she said and he will see you about your antenatal appointments too. I know you can't do medical advice on here but just feeling really down on here that my health could well be screwing this up. My BMI has been 27-30 for years so that doesn't help but I've never smoked, haven't drunk for weeks and my diet isn't all that bad but my gym going has been non-existent the last 3/4 weeks since ectopic scare and hospital - unfortunately my genes aren't in my favour though as we have a tendency towards hypertension in my family even though I am the fattest by a very very very long way. Was really grumpy with DP last night and this morning, I can't seem to get my worries into rational words with him as I know he is worried too! How silly is that? Can you diet in pregnancy? Would that help? Just being bleedin' miserable today. I'll go now!

There's not much you can actually do but try and stay relaxed. If they medicate you, they medicate you. Your BMI is not too bad so stop beating yourself up.

Eat healthily, take some nice strolls instead of going to the gym and try and and try and enjoy yourself.

Krystaltips

Glamazon wrote: »

Do u have any ideas at all what it could be?

I don't, I have no idea either way - no feelings or anything. I think that's partly why I want to find out because it means I get a little bit of information about my baby now and then tons when he/she is born.

Whoever mentioned the skin to skin contact with OH - thanks!
It was great and he really enjoyed it being so close to me and Bean. I was kinda hoping he/she might give a little kick but not yet.

I have no clue at all... Hubby is convinced it is a boy... And I lean more towards boy... But then I did with Aimee and she turned out to be a girl! I keep telling hubby if we do have a girl it will come out very gender confused seeing as it's been called he all the way through lol.. I love a good surprise

And as for skin to skin... I gave birth in a birthing pool but insisted on keeping my nightie on in the water because my sister was there... When I got out the water I just held my arms in the air 'skin a bunny' style, someone (no idea who) stripped my nightie off and I got on the bed and Aimee was put on my chest and we were covered with a blanket while I went through 3rd stage... For some reason I just ceased to care lol...

SugarSpun

My goodness Icklebeans you look adorable! I really hate it when strangers come and rub my belly, but my hands are itching just looking at that picture.

I went to bed for an hour before going out to the GP's emergency hour and slept right through it. Feeling a bit better now, but I've been sniffling so much and so long that now my nose is bleeding

Still, my OH has the plague now and is far worse than I am. He's gone to bed and left his computer open and his Facebook unattended. I'm just wondering what to do to his status...