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  • Glamazon wrote: »
    I thanked Grace by mistake - bring back the remove thanks button!

    Grace - I just can't believe that in January you are posting that ur husband has a girlfriend and now you are planning to go thru surrogacy :confused:. Just a couple of months ago he was in bed with someone else - you are crazy to even take him back after he's been with another woman.
    And even crazier to think about having a child - how do u know he won't go back to her?!
    Not exactly the best environment to bring a child into - but then I guess the nanny will be there to provide the emotional support that you and your husband can't while you are out earning your millions and working halfway around the world.
    I would love to see you getting a nanny in this day and age that stays with you for 32 years - it might have happened 30 years ago but I doubt very much it will happen nowadays.

    I doubt she will find one that will work for her for 32 days - given her attitude! I hope the nanny doesn't plan on getting pregnant or want to take maternity leave :rotfl:
    SAHM Mummy to
    ds (born Oct 2007) and dd (born June 2010)
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    grace1990 wrote: »
    We weren't toghether for 4 years, we were in different countries and both of us had relationships with other people. Trust me, he won't be going back to her, they were together a matter of weeks. Our situation is far better than alot of peoples who have children, we are married, own our house and other properties and have extensive savings, much better than a teenage parent on a council estate.

    But at least the teenage parent on the housing estate is not palming her child off to the nanny.
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    I doubt she will find one that will work for her for 32 days - given her attitude! I hope the nanny doesn't plan on getting pregnant or want to take maternity leave :rotfl:

    Ha! She will be slipping the pill into her drinking water!
  • grace1990 wrote: »
    We weren't toghether for 4 years, we were in different countries and both of us had relationships with other people. Trust me, he won't be going back to her, they were together a matter of weeks. Our situation is far better than alot of peoples who have children, we are married, own our house and other properties and have extensive savings, much better than a teenage parent on a council estate.


    Grace why with the nasty comments all the time?

    You pick on peoples post, and think its ok to continue it over and over, this post was never about YOU! The op was asking for info, How old are you 10?

    And what right have you got to pick on teenage mother's who might life on a council estate? Or be single parents? So.....And your point is?

    Half of these teenagers love and care for their children, they are there to brush the dirt of sore knee's, stay up all night with a cold ect..
    Rather then being nasty, why dont you think before you speak.

    Op, Hows the pregnancy going? Hope all is well! congratz once again!
    Future goals:
    Become debt free.
    Beat Depression.
    Be happy & healthy
  • robin_banks
    robin_banks Posts: 15,778 Forumite
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    grace1990 wrote: »
    We weren't toghether for 4 years, we were in different countries and both of us had relationships with other people. Trust me, he won't be going back to her, they were together a matter of weeks. Our situation is far better than alot of peoples who have children, we are married, own our house and other properties and have extensive savings, much better than a teenage parent on a council estate.

    Grace, you own your own house and have extensive savings blah blah blah other properties etc, family of solicitors and accountants etc, an ex-child model yada yada yada.

    Why with all this money and connections can't the pair of you sort out a basic tenancy agreement when renting out your extensive portfolio?, !!!!!! you couldn't even get an inventory together. Nothing more annoying than an amateur landlord who doesn't know what they're doing.

    Moving on to the 'limpet', he may not go back to her, yet you state he can't keep it in his pants so he may decide to go elsewhere (even with your 'big boobs that you love'), it sounds like this relationship is highly unstable, yet you want to adopt?.

    I'll stop short of saying you're a fantasist though.
    "An arrogant and self-righteous Guardian reading tvv@t".

    !!!!!! is all that about?
  • tiamai_d wrote: »
    Ha! She will be slipping the pill into her drinking water!

    Don't give her ideas ;)
    SAHM Mummy to
    ds (born Oct 2007) and dd (born June 2010)
  • Glamazon
    Glamazon Posts: 8,401 Forumite
    edited 15 April 2009 at 12:51PM
    grace1990 wrote: »
    We weren't toghether for 4 years, we were in different countries and both of us had relationships with other people. Trust me, he won't be going back to her, they were together a matter of weeks. Our situation is far better than alot of peoples who have children, we are married, own our house and other properties and have extensive savings, much better than a teenage parent on a council estate.

    So u are married but weren't together for 4 years, got back together and a couple of months later are looking into Surrogacy? :eek:

    You can't label everyone as a teenage mum on a council estate - the majority of us are in long term relationships, OH and I might not be married but at least we have been togther for the last 10 years and he's not left me for 4 of them to live with someone else.

    Answer these few questions for me truthfully - yes/no
    1. If you were offered 6 months paid maternity leave, would u take it?
    2. Will you apply for the Health in Pregnancy Grant which everyone is entitled to?
    3. Will you claim Child Benefit?
    4. Will you take the £250 Child Trust Fund Voucher?

    If you say Yes to any of them then you are a hypocrite
    If you say no to any of them then you are a liar - no-one would pass on money you are entitled to. Get some of your hard earned taxes back!!!
    A very busy Yummy Mummy to a 1 year old gorgeous boy :smileyhea

    Where does the time go? :think:
  • Just a thought, Maybe Grace1990 is waiting for one of us to start a thread for her...............

    All about grace:-
    Grace better then all the rest:-
    Grace, I'm going to be a better mother then everyone else in the world, as i have "big boobs", my own properties, My own big 7 bedroom house, with porsh cars, Personal driver,i make £kkkkk a year... And a cheating lying husband!

    Wonder how many hits she has?
    I for one am sick of her, and the way she picks at people!

    Grrr worst then a troll!
    Future goals:
    Become debt free.
    Beat Depression.
    Be happy & healthy
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    grace1990 wrote: »
    We weren't toghether for 4 years, we were in different countries and both of us had relationships with other people. Trust me, he won't be going back to her, they were together a matter of weeks. Our situation is far better than alot of peoples who have children, we are married, own our house and other properties and have extensive savings, much better than a teenage parent on a council estate.
    I think you missed a very important word out there Financial, I think we've all got very bored of trying to let you know that money is NOT the most important thing in life.
    You say he was only with her a matter of weeks yet he moved her into a house that you say you own:confused:
    My husband wouldn't dream of doing that!
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • grace1990
    grace1990 Posts: 310 Forumite
    I have never siad we did not have an inventory, I just said I wanted them out of my house, because there was so much damage, but thats sorted now.
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