Support for people with Depression

pipkin71

(((HUGS))) Tulip, hunny.

Sometimes, people realise the end has come but try to hold on to things and all that does is hurt even more then.

I hope you're ok, pet and you can find support from those who know and love you, as well as support from here.

pipkin71

sandy71 wrote: »

Moning all.

Katie, hope you are ok. You sound like a very strong person x

Shaz, Glad you had a good day, isn't it funny how the little things cheer us up.

Pipkin How was the sleepover? Did you get any sleep. My kids talk half the night then moan the next day that they are tired:rotfl:

I'm feeling quite down today, no reason why just fed up with everything

The girls are back now, and extremely tired

They were very spoilt though - cooked breakfast on a Friday :eek::eek::eek:

They did have a nice time, despite staying up too late

I didn't get much sleep again, though.

Sorry to hear you're feeling down Any idea why? Will it soon be TOTM? Does that affect you on top of everything else?

How's your arm doing now? I haven't asked in a while.

sandy71

Glad they had a good time. Hopefully you should get a peaceful night if they are tired.

Not TOTM I just get more grumpy than usual then:o I'm just fed up with everything going wrong, I can normally cope with a couple of things at a time but at the moment it feels like someone is kicking me constantly:(
My arm isn't to bad thanks, not as painful as it was. It is itching like mad now though.

Thanks for thinking about me, I know I need to just get on with it but I just want to crawl into a hole.

Hope you are ok. x

pipkin71

sandy71 wrote: »

Glad they had a good time. Hopefully you should get a peaceful night if they are tired.

Not TOTM I just get more grumpy than usual then:o I'm just fed up with everything going wrong, I can normally cope with a couple of things at a time but at the moment it feels like someone is kicking me constantly:(
My arm isn't to bad thanks, not as painful as it was. It is itching like mad now though.

Thanks for thinking about me, I know I need to just get on with it but I just want to crawl into a hole.

Hope you are ok. x

Sometimes I want to just crawl under the duvet and stay there, but I know I can't.

I felt really sad the other day, thinking about how someone treated me for being disabled, and then of course I was annoyed and I'm trying to forget about it now, but it isn't easy

I think, especially when so many things are going on, you just have this feeling of enough already' and there doesn't seem to be any let up, but it will let up, hunny and hopefully, things will settle down.

I'm aware that's probably easy for me to say, because I'm not going through what you are, and it's not always possible to stay positive.

I do hope things become easier for you soon though. (((HUGS)))

sandy71

pipkin71 wrote: »

Sometimes I want to just crawl under the duvet and stay there, but I know I can't.

I felt really sad the other day, thinking about how someone treated me for being disabled, and then of course I was annoyed and I'm trying to forget about it now, but it isn't easy

I think, especially when so many things are going on, you just have this feeling of enough already' and there doesn't seem to be any let up, but it will let up, hunny and hopefully, things will settle down.

I'm aware that's probably easy for me to say, because I'm not going through what you are, and it's not always possible to stay positive.

I do hope things become easier for you soon though. (((HUGS)))

You see that's how over sensitive I am, your post made me cry:o Thanks for being so kind. I probably deserve all I get anyway:(

It is horrible the way some people treat others. It upsets me too. Hope you are ok now

pipkin71

sandy71 wrote: »

You see that's how over sensitive I am, your post made me cry:o Thanks for being so kind. I probably deserve all I get anyway:(

It is horrible the way some people treat others. It upsets me too. Hope you are ok now

Aww, hunny

You don't deserve all you get. You don't deserve anything you've had to go through.

Sometimes, life deals us a cruel blow, but we need to try to make the most of what we have, because it's our only life.

Look at all the positives - your family, for starters.

My girls keep me going. They need me, even though they are starting to assert their independence.

It would be easy to let that duvet swallow me up, especially as my health continues to cause problems but I can't let my girls down.

You have been through so much lately, that it's no wonder you feel the way you do. I don't have epilepsy, so cannot totally understand how it affects you. My nephew does have it [he's only 4 ] and so I do have a bit of experience, and can sympathise, but it must be totally draining for you

Sorry to hear my post made you cry though. Sometimes, crying is a good thing, as it can release a lot of built up emotion, but when it adds to how you feel, it isn't so great

Hope you're ok today, pet.

We're going to see friends. They aren't having a great time so I'm going to offer my shoulder.

Speak later xxxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Thanks for the lovely messages left yesterday,Means alot to me and You are all my friends here too . I am here for you all if you need an listening ear.

I am going for a walk in a minute to get some air as its a lovely day.

chat later.

love and light,

Katie xxx

Miroslav

Just popping in to say hello to everyone. I hope everyone is as well as can be. Sorry if my post turns into a huge rant.

Don't get online much nowadays and flatmate is depressing me greatly.

She is addicted to social networking sites and has all but kicked myself and the two remaining cats into touch (and her other real life friends) unless she wants something from us.

I always knew she was that kind of person and she was a great manipulator, but she has taken it to another level. Anyone that meets her thinks she's an innocent person who hasn't a bad bone in her body, but she is incredibly sly and if she want something, she'll get it, no matter who she hurts. She likens me to a bully because I dare answer her back and she always uses emotional blackmail and threats of telling people (exaggerating to) how I am mean to her (don't let her get her own way all of the time).

She is going to meet some of the people on her social network sites when she has saved enough money for travel and accommodation, most of which she actually owes me for her share of the vet bills for my 3 deceased cats over the last year. She also does nothing (yes, I do mean absolutely nothing) around the home.

She has even refused to take the rubbish out with me (I carry it, she walks with me as it's a two minute walk to our bin shed and I do it at night as it's often cat litter) Her suggestion - store it in my bedroom if I don't want to go down on my own.

She won't eat meals anymore, because it means she has to leave the PC for 20 minutes.

Sadly, I have nowhere to go or I would leave with my remaining 2 cats and no matter what I do, i'm unreasonable. She constantly lies, says things and says she never said them at a later date.

I could go on but i've said enough. I'm fuming and frankly I can't tell anyone as no-one will believe that big me would have any problems with little, flutter her eyelashes, innocent flatmate.

Sorry for the rant.

Raksha

pipkin71 wrote: »

Sometimes I want to just crawl under the duvet and stay there, but I know I can't.

Having one of those days here too, just wanted to roll over and sleep and not face the world - and this is the weekend

shazrobo

hi miro, been wandering how you were. sorry to hear things have got so bad with your flat mate, (((big hugs))). wish there was something i could do to help. have you tried looking in newagents or local papers, often peole are looking for others to house or flat share
hugs shaz xxx