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Found diamond ring... but no proposal!
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If you didnt have a headache and had of put out he may have proposed0
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Definitely don't say anything. You will ruin it for him, he doesn't want to be sprung, he wants it to be a 'surprise' for you.
Unless he has forgotten where he put the ring of course, and is pulling his hair out trying to find it!
Midas.0 -
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Hardly a troller do you even know the definition of one knobjock?ChrisCobra wrote: »Great help , another typical MSE troller not providing help.
Wait and see , or alternatively propose yourself! Then youll know what he is up to!
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Wait and see
and keep us posted....Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
Oh my I can really understand your frustration (did the ring fit by the way? )
If it were me I would keep quiet (although I imagine this is easier said than done) but make sure he has plenty of oppotunity, e.g. suggest country walks with pretty view (excellent for proposals), maybe you could suggest that you go out for dinner somewhere suitably posh, that sort of thing try to give him some opportunity, poor guy is probably bricking it, but that is no excuse for not getting on with it
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(ps I am soooooooo jealous!)2009 wins: Cadburys Chocolate Pack x 6, Sally Hansen Hand cream, Ipod nano! mothers day meal at Toby Carvery! :j :j :j :j0 -
Oh I was so excited for you when I read the thread title - thought you gained a ring w/o having to commit to marriage!Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!
"No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio
Hope is not a strategy...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!0 -
I would be so paranoid I would have asked him straight out is it for me or is it for another skank?:mad:0
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I think after 3 weeks of waiting, I would ask him about it / admit you had found the ring. I can understand why people are saying wait until he asks you, but heck you can't wait forever. And in the meantime it must be difficult for you, wondering why he hasn't proposed etc.
It still makes a great story for the grandchildren, even if you kind of pre-empt it a bit.0 -
One day you'll have to tell him you found it .... imagine the laugh you'll have (but you'll be old and well married by then)!
I agree with the above - don't say anything ... for at least another few days! And then maybe ask him if he's thought about marriage at all???0
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