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Trials and tribulations of a Debt Free Wannabee!
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Hi Little emms and Tigzem and other readers - Thanks for posting it does encourage me and help me keep going
one of the jobs I applied for yesterday - has said they might shortlist me! Woohoo! Good start!
I joined linked in to try and build my network so that I can give the job thro people I know thing a chance.... It will be interesting to see how it goes....Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
do you have a local "businesswomens network" in your area - ours is quite good, it is not just for self employed women, but for professionals and is a "nice" networking thing.....generally over lunch

Try Weetu as well - again, although it is primarily for women wanting to set up business on their own, it could be helpful for general networking as there are several mentors etc about.....might be worth searching or a phone call.?Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
thanks hypno - I will see if there is anything in my area.... Not heard of weetu?Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
Been offered between £70 and £100 for my car.... feeling decidedly sorry for myselfAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
savingholmes wrote: »Been offered between £70 and £100 for my car.... feeling decidedly sorry for myself
*Super big hugs* And a dodgy group hug :grouphug: xxMortgage: Jun 08 £155300~Repayment Made: £4300~Remaining: Mar 10 £151000DFW Nerd 1190
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Thanks Raini! Hope things come right for you too!
Well I have an interview tomorrow - decent salary plus CAR! Woohoo - apparently it is less than 20 miles from my house too!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
savingholmes wrote: »thanks hypno - I will see if there is anything in my area.... Not heard of weetu?
http://www.weetu.org/index.php
It is local to me, but there must be similar things going on all over the UK I guess.Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
Thanks for that hypno. Not in the right area for weetu - have found some local networking groups however they seem more geared to the private business owner that people like me.... Might give it a go at some point... May go back to another professional branch meeting and see what that turns up and chase up the person who offered to help me get upgraded....
I have signed on again - procrastination over so making some small steps at least...Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
Oh well.... house still a tip.... found some peanuts - thought yum! They were foul - checked the date Feb 08!!!:o
Kettle just blew up...:rolleyes: had to use a saucepan on the hob!!! Told OH and he just started laughing...
What is going on????
Off to town tomorrow to meet an agency and then back for the interview for a specific job... Then DD wants me to take her to see Coraline - her treat bless her as she has more money than us!!!:o Bless - I will make it up to her when I am earning again.
Chased up interview expenses for the interview that got me fired - they have agreed to pay train fare etc so will get £65.60 back there at least....:rotfl:
I have 3 more connections on linked in....Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250 -
Good luck for the interview today.Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0
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