Single and in Debt Part II

Lula-Hula

gwen80 wrote: »

114 pounds??!! I wouldn't bother for that amount of money. Are there no cheaper sites you can look into. You get cashback through quidco when you sign up to match - makes a 6 months membership about 20 quid and then you get 6 months free if you have found anybody, so really its a whole year for about 20 quid.

Thanks Gwen,

To be honest, I joined the site unawares I got sent this affinity test by email, completed it & next thing I've got a profile on this site, millions of emails saying who I might be compatible with & now people sending me messages :eek:, not at all what I was wanting :mad:. I've been mulling over joining a site - mainly because my social life is minimal & I work from home so the chances of meeting someone other than milkmen, meter readers or posties are very remote :rolleyes:. Frankly I dont feel ready to put myself out there yet so think I will follow your advice & when I am ready follow your suggestion :T & remove myself & my profile from the site, quick .

How are you finding it ?

lula
xx

The_Boss

Is this thread for girls only?

Lula-Hula

The_Boss wrote: »

Is this thread for girls only?

Hello & on behalf of us all welcome

no, there are a few boys ... ok there's TDQ but he's currently en route to Oz but will no doubt be back online again soon. He's very male :cool:

All are very welcome here, & some posters arent even single or in debt, they just love it here because we're so fabulous :rotfl:

Sarah will be most upset that she wasnt here to welcome you, so please stick around or I may be in trouble ofr scaring you off.

so, what are your interest ( other than money saving :rolleyes:) ?

lula

The_Boss

Oh ok well I used to be a long term regular on here, but stopped about a year and a half ago. Too many things annoyed me, but anyhoo. I'm in the same boat as most people in this thread it seems - trying to pay off debt - mine from a disasterous move with an ex girlfriend a few years ago, compounded with enjoying going out far too much. I find being single helps, although obviously its far from ideal to be honest. And like some guys here I've lost a bit of weight recently, although that wasn't really from a concerted effort

sarahb123_3

The_Boss wrote: »

Is this thread for girls only?

Hi the Boss. It isn't female only, but I can see how a quick read through might make it look like that:D

Welcome to the thread, it's good to have another male on board.:j

Lula-Hula

Well in that case welcome back, I think we all need to have a break from here now & then, it can get a bit obsessive & all consuming.

when I start referring to my daughter as DD I know it's time to step back a bit.

By the way, do you like shoes :rotfl:

The_Boss

Do I like shoes? Ironically I'm after a pair of converses and a casual pair, but not sure that's quite what you meant

DD, now that's a blast from the past

pipk62

Lula, I know how you feel.

sarahb123_3

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Someone has just sent me a message, dont know what to do He sounds okish but is rather old at 48, doesnt have & doesnt want children. My good manners tell me that I must reply, but I dont want to have to pay £114 in order to say 'on yer bike mate':rotfl:

I need to make a decision quick, any suggestions ?

£114! :eek::eek::eek: There are definitely better uses for your money than that.:eek: Think of all the lovely things you can get from the garden centre shop:D

The_Boss

Have any of you guys ever tried using facebook to meet people? I've met a few people on there, all of whom were really nice, and of course it doesn't cost anything. You can chat to them/message them before to make sure they are decent people etc and get to know them for a bit before meeting up. Definitely worth a try? Think I've seen about 8 people from there, and only 1 was a disaster because she barely said a word.