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Single and in Debt Part II

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  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    I am starting from scratch again as the last list hardly did me any good- and has gone a bit yellow and crinkly with age:rolleyes::rotfl:I'm sure they will both end up with more or less the same things though. I did try a few weeks ago but I couldn't be bothered finishing it, just added "must have hair":D

    I am not compiling it just yet, I am using something I saw in a self help book (again:rolleyes:) which says that in order to know what you really want you have to decide what you don't want first and ask yourself "what do I want then?" You do this by going back through past relationships and pinpointing the carp bits. What fun!:rotfl:

    Am pinching must be taller than me in heels from your list:D
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • gwen80
    gwen80 Posts: 2,255 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hello!

    I've definitely not got a life. Boo!!! This month is soooo long.

    My list is:

    Sense of humour
    Taller than me (ideally in heels too)
    Affectionate
    Accepts me as I am
    Trustworthy

    That's all I can think of at the moment.

    Gwenx
    Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Don't mind no hair, actually I quite like it! But am adding
    • must not be skinnier than me
    • must not take longer to get ready than me (ie. no 'pretty boys', real men only!) :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    Don't mind no hair, actually I quite like it! But am adding
    • must not be skinnier than me
    • must not take longer to get ready than me (ie. no 'pretty boys', real men only!) :D

    Am pinching those too:rotfl:In fact, can you just write the whole list for me?
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Hello all,

    I like the list idea, after my recent dabble with dating on the net I've done some serious thinking & my list so far is

    Older
    Wiser
    Richer
    Smarter
    Taller ( likewise the heels Shoe Gal :D)
    Plays a sport
    Brown or Green eyes


    dont want much do I :rotfl:
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    A question - has anybody ever been invloved with anybody who would fit their list???

    I am a definate no! :o
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Lula-Hula wrote: »

    dont want much do I :rotfl:

    I think you have shown remarkable restraint. My last list had 29 things on it. :o
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    sarahb123 wrote: »
    I think you have shown remarkable restraint. My last list had 29 things on it. :o

    Were all 29 non-negotiable???? :rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    A question - has anybody ever been invloved with anybody who would fit their list???

    I am a definate no! :o


    Not all in the same man unfortunately, but I have had one of each variety :rotfl:
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    A question - has anybody ever been invloved with anybody who would fit their list???

    I am a definate no! :o

    No, but I have with ones who are currently coming in very useful in helping me decide what I don't want. :rolleyes:

    I think one problem is that I have never lived with anyone so I don't really know what to ask for there. Has anyone got any tips for that?
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
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