Single and in Debt Part II

Eupho

sarahb123 wrote: »

I have loads of expensive underwear lying rould here. The only way a man will see it is if I am in a car crash and I have to have my clothes cut off.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

sarahb123_3

Eupho wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:

I tell you what tho.. I DO do that stuff.. for ME!

Every night.. I clean my face.. put the creams on.. brush my hair.. prance about in the mirror.. and every night I put perfume on just before I get into bed. haha :rotfl:

I do that for ME!

I even put perfume on now.. before I go out and do the gardening.. for ME! :T

(attracts bees to the garden too

:rotfl:

This is excelllent advice. Welcome by the way. You are right, we should be doing it for ourselves.

*plans to get stung by a bee, go into shock and need underwear cutting off*

Eupho

sarahb123 wrote: »

This is excelllent advice. Welcome by the way. You are right, we should be doing it for ourselves.

*plans to get stung by a bee, go into shock and need underwear cutting off*

hahaha!! :rotfl:

Anyhooo.. I only started doing all that a few months ago.. and I really LIKE it now.. It does help .. honestly.

Buffythedebtslayer

sarahb123 wrote: »

Am so sick of fighting. Why should I? How many married people do you know who had to fight to get there? I know we all know women who had given up hope and got married in their 30s/40s, but not all of them do. Most just expect it and get it. What the hell are we doing wrong? Am so bloody sick of fighting. How the f*** did this happen? Why are we the ones who have to fight for it?

All true. I guess other people have different battles?
And actually I think I am part of the reason I mean I don't go out I don't meet people, if a guy smiled at me I'd probably have a fit.

and as for the debt. Well I spent fifty quid today, panic buying for the presents I had forgotten to get. I mean I am my own worst enemy.

So fight on I will! xxxxxx

RosaBernicia

Eupho wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:

I tell you what tho.. I DO do that stuff.. for ME!

I even put perfume on now.. before I go out and do the gardening.. for ME! :T

Oh hurrah somebody else who does that! :j

I darn well wear my good underwear. No point having stuff and not enjoying it. And wearing good stuff means I feel, well, looked after even if it is just by me.

:rotfl:@ Eupho... I have a king size to myself and I wouldn't mind sharing it... but then apparently I am a terrible duvet thief myself . I have NO idea how I used to put up with sharing a single with a 6' 3" rugby player... but it was fun at the time

Rosa xx

Buffythedebtslayer

I wear nice underwear and perfume.

I am going to implement Shoe Gal's Goddess plan too.

sarahb123_3

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

I wear nice underwear and perfume.

I am going to implement Shoe Gal's Goddess plan too.

Me too, I am trying but I just so desperately need to loose weight first. I can hardly expect someone to think I am the woman of their dreams when I am so fat. I cannot even tell you how it got like this. Every single thing that could go wrong had gone wrong. I am not asking for much. Just what everyone else has. Am fat, poor, old, single. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. Should have got married and then got fat. Trust me to get everything the wrong way round.

Buffythedebtslayer

Yes, something seems to have happened lately that means my tummy and my bingo wings have got suddenly so much worse.

I found this quote and am looking for some more Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. - Plato

Eupho

RosaBernicia wrote: »

Oh hurrah somebody else who does that! :j

I darn well wear my good underwear. No point having stuff and not enjoying it. And wearing good stuff means I feel, well, looked after even if it is just by me.

:rotfl:@ Eupho... I have a king size to myself and I wouldn't mind sharing it... but then apparently I am a terrible duvet thief myself . I have NO idea how I used to put up with sharing a single with a 6' 3" rugby player... but it was fun at the time

Rosa xx

:rotfl::rotfl:

and absolutely! For the time being.. we have to 'well look after' OURSELVES! :T

Eupho

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

I wear nice underwear and perfume.

I am going to implement Shoe Gal's Goddess plan too.

Oo tell tell!

Oh my sister is going to email me an article from a magazine in OZ

It's called something like *29 ways to treat yourself* (didnt cost anything I don't think ~ I asked! haha)