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the caseworker I've got has been able to do an assessment on 3 payslips. Saying that he'll be paying £5 a week. Even though he works at 3 different places, there's just not much evidence. The money he's supposed to be now giving me... well I'll be surprised if I receive any of it.
I was just wondering...does he have a second family now? Partner and children?0 -
He lives with his fiance and she's due to pop a boy out in about 2 weeks. She's the one that made all the money with a good job, so god knows what they'll do if she decides not to go back to work.
She thinks he pays, he's the compulsive liar type (long story)TSB: £4900
Virgin: £4700
Today is the first day of the rest of my life...0 -
Oh HeatherH
Not much advice really, just wanted to say I sympathise.... I am in exactly the same boat and your ex sounds just like mine (esp compulsive liar bit)! I too am desperate for him to show my daughter that he can be reliable and consistent but I am obviously asking too much.
Here's hoping we get some action from the CSA sooner rather than later.........:jThanks to everyone who post competitions/freebies :jStarted comping June 2011 and wins/freebies so far are..JLS cd Tabasco sauce Toothpaste Simple eye corrector pen Armarni Sport Code Bio effect serum Charles Worthington hair straightening kit Lancome mascara Rimmel mascara £50 gift card Breakfast Cereal0 -
He lives with his fiance and she's due to pop a boy out in about 2 weeks. She's the one that made all the money with a good job, so god knows what they'll do if she decides not to go back to work.
She thinks he pays, he's the compulsive liar type (long story)
She must know if he is paying or not??
My OHs CSA payment comes out of MY bank account every week.0 -
He's got the gift of the gab, and she's very nieve... it's why they've lasted so long probably. I had a lucky escape lolTSB: £4900
Virgin: £4700
Today is the first day of the rest of my life...0 -
HeatherH, provide your caseworker with the addresses of the three employers and ask your caseworker to do an IMA (Interim maintenance assessment... thats if the CSA still does these) i.e. an artificiallly high imposed assessment until your ex provides full details for all three employers so a proper assessment can be done. Good Luck.0
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kelloggs36 wrote: »Not really - a bonus of about £30 per YEAR really is no incentive to get as much collected.
I was referring to senior management.0 -
bwahahaha Senior management...I thought It was ran by chimps0
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