Please Help Me

BlueIsTheColour

To get my texts off my phone, I just connect the phone to the PC, and using the software that came with the phone, it synchronises and they're all in there and you can print them off, that was the case for my Nokia phone and also my Sony one now. Hope you get it sussed

Good luck with your union, has to be a positive step doesnt it, at least you will have the info then, instead of worrying about things possibly needlessly...

Peekay32

What phone model do you have OP?

theunknownstuntman

Icanandwillsavemoney wrote: »

He was a probationary police officer but he was always a little evasive as to why he never took a full time pc role after the probationary period. He used to say his ex wife caused hm too much hassle at work so he felt he couldn't commit to the role. He is now a parking attendant or... in his words an enforcment officer. He gives out parking tickets.

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What a nasty little git. Not all men are controlling bullys like this. The above info really interested me as I'm a serving copper. I would hazard a guess that he was booted out and failed his probationary period as he was found out to be a bully and not a nice chap.

I can only offer hugs (i've got big arms!) and agree with the excellent advice you have already received on here. 400 texts IS harassment. Excellent thinking keeping the emails and texts and logs of both. I'd recommend taking them to the police and getting a restraining order on him.

Stunty.

Icanandwillsavemoney

Update - long one!!!

Spoke to my boss this morning during my one to one and he said...... 'it's a civil matter, we as a company would not be interested'!!!! He is so the best boss ever!! Then he has asked if I had been in touch with employee assistance - a confidential helpline which provides colleagues with free legal help and advice! I called them and the letter below is a joint collaberation.... let me know your thoughts:

Removed just to be on the safe side.

madmalteaser

What a fantastic letter, and it's great that you now have some support with this situation. I'm really glad you spoke to your boss as well, it sounds like his support has given you the strength to fight back against your ex. Good luck with this and let us know what happens! x

Pollycat

Wow! Am I glad that I'm not going to be on the receiving end of that letter! :T

I hope it does the trick and stops this oik intimidating you.

Do keep us up to date with this.
How are you doing with the advice re your SOA?

the_rottweiler

I personally would not offer a statement of affairs unless it came to court (which I doubt)
I would also add that any contact must now be by his solicitor and any diect contact by him will not be acknowleged, will be classed as more harrassment and will be reported to police with the email and text evidence

RAS

excellent letter but can i sugget you hit edit and remove the contents of the letter BEFORE you post it, as I would not want ex to google it and find your thread.

10past6

Icanandwillsavemoney wrote: »

However your client feels it necessary to become aggressive and threatening at which I will no longer tolerate.

I would also add: Should it be necessary I will seek and obtain an injunction against your client.

Burlesque_Babe

wow.............:T :T :T :T

I also think it might be worthwhile not to offer an SOA at this point.

However, that is an excellent letter........well done you.

Keep us informed - we're all behind you.