Fibromyalgia (part 2)

raeh

hello all, im back
very quick post as i felt i had to say something to kass no point me saying anything really as its all been said in my absence but really kass, think about the kids being left with him, even if he wasnt physical with them, the anger and verbal aggression is as hard for a small child to deal with as a physical attack huge, huge hugsto you [no dodgy 3 some from me ] and please protect yourself by letting everyone know exactly what he is like. I hope you can find somewhere else very, very soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


hugs to everyone else and il be back to reply to other posts when iv had time to recover and rest xxxx

bigzippy

raeh wrote: »

... il be back to reply to other posts when iv had time to recover and rest xxxx

Bout time too!

suep

cwta I love the sound of that film, was it any good ? :rotfl:I'm the same by the end of the day too so no apoligies needed.

raeh Welcome back, hope you had a good time.

BZ I love your word 'Mooky' and yes I know exactly what you mean

The ramp is now all done and although I havnt got the small threshold ramp for indoors d/h thought he would try the ramp out as it looks a bit steep. He took it down the end of the garden path and rode it up the ramp, it ground to a halt on the steep bit, it was too steep for my little scooter :eek: I didnt know what we could do, it would have to be knocked down (its cement) then I decided to have a go myself as d/h is alot bigger than me and luckily it went straight to the top so it will be ok as long as I dont put on any weight.

black_paw

friend has 10 cats

bigzippy

suep wrote: »

BZ I love your word 'Mooky' and yes I know exactly what you mean

I got it from a friend who lives in York, but has lived allover (her dad was in the Army) so who knows where it's from! It's a good word though, so is now part of my vocabulary

The ramp thing sounds like just the sort of problem I'd have!! Glad it works for you though :T That could've been a nightmare in the making.

Raeh hope you had a good time and didn't overdo it too much (who am I trying to kid?? )

Unity and Suep and anyone else who needs it, hope you feel better soon

I took DF suit shopping today. What a palaver. He's as bad if not worse than I was when I was going dress shopping with the whole self-conscious, I can't fit in anything, thing. :rolleyes: It didn't go well and he's come home rather depressed. I've been in rather a few shops now looking for the right colour tie and I still can't find it...I really am beginning to seriously consider buying one of the bm skirts and making 7/8 ties out of it I wouldn't mind, but it might end up being a cheaper option too! Anyone know how to make a tie?

Sorry I've not had much to say today, only woke up about 6ish and then DF was home and I had to chivvy him along to get him out the house and virtually drag him to the shops (even if I was pushed in a w/chair ) :cool:

P.s. Jamla 10 is a lot!!

bigzippy

Ok, I need to get this out of my head, so you lot'll just have to grin and bear it

The wedding checklist:

• [STRIKE]book venue[/STRIKE]
• [STRIKE]book church[/STRIKE]
• [STRIKE]get a pastor to marry us[/STRIKE]
• [STRIKE]get a registrar[/STRIKE]
• go to town hall and get Notice of Marriage done
• [STRIKE]book caterers[/STRIKE]
• conflab with caterers to sort: final menu out, decoration (napkins/tablecloths etc), drinks required, check what the PA system is for the entertainer
• [STRIKE]book florist[/STRIKE]
• conflab with florist to finalise requirements
• [STRIKE]book photographer[/STRIKE]
• conflab with photographer (nearer the time) with list of shots we want for the album
• [STRIKE]book entertainment[/STRIKE]
• finalise with entertainer what songs we want and when
• make sure we have adequate techy stuff for ipod playlist/dj type set
• [STRIKE]book cake maker[/STRIKE]
• finalise plans for cake(s)
• [STRIKE]do the invites[/STRIKE]
• send all the invites out
• [STRIKE]make the order of services covers[/STRIKE]
• make sure there's enough order of services covers and, if not, order more diamantes
• do the order of service inserts
• chose readings for the wedding
• chose the songs for the signing of the register
• order more butterflies for the order of service covers
• [STRIKE]order wedding dress[/STRIKE]
• give them the measurements for the wedding dress
• get the alterations done
• chose/order a veil
• chose/order the hair pins
• book a hairdresser
• [STRIKE]get wedding shoes[/STRIKE]
• [STRIKE]get bridal jewellry[/STRIKE]
• make sure have the right makeup for the day and practice it
• [STRIKE]order/choose the bridesmaid dresses[/STRIKE]
• chose/order bridesmaid shoes
• [STRIKE]chose/get bridesmaid jewellry[/STRIKE]
• find/order wedding rings(!)
• [STRIKE]table confetti[/STRIKE]
• [STRIKE]flowers for tables[/STRIKE]
• vases for table flowers
• get/arrange/book/blag/borrow/steal wedding car(s)
• get/chose/order groom's/groomsmens' suits
• get/order groomsmens' shoes
• get/order groomsmens' shirts
• get/order/make groomsmens' ties (to match bm dresses)
• get the stuff and make up the kids little goody bag things
• do the lovehearts sweets personalising (and buy the lovehearts)
• get the personalised wine bottle (groomsmen gifts) done
• [EDIT] get underwear
• [EDIT] get underskirt
• [EDIT] wear in shoes
• [EDIT] get passport for new name for when [strike]stupid[/strike] sister gets "married" in Israel

What am I missing? I feel like there's something I've not thought of...?

purplecatlover

i couldnt imagine having 10 cats, 2 is enough for me, its a nightmare when mine and my sisters are together and thats only 5.

raeh hope it wasnt too exhausting and you have managed to catch up and recover.

sue glad the ramp works for you, phew.

morning everyone else too.

cepheus

What am I missing? I feel like there's something I've not thought of

Send a car round to collect groom from yesterday's stag night venue?

PS along with smelling salts

somebody_else

Jamla wrote: »

friend has 10 cats

I put my foot down at 4 and made it absolutely clear that the pillock wasn't to 'rescue' any more. I think there's a limit to how many cats one can safely and reasonably have in a small dwelling. (All mine were males and neutered at the first opportunity, so at least there was never the temptation to keep any of the kitten.)

somebody_else

bigzippy wrote: »

What am I missing? I feel like there's something I've not thought of...?

Elope?

[Mutter, mutter, mutter - what's the point of trying to be succinct and to the point if the board won't let you post a short message. Mutter, mutter, mutter.]