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Weekly Flylady Thread 26th January 2009

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  • I'm in holly!!
    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • Valli wrote: »
    Now I know there is a DS with a birthday today - is it Holly's? so off to find out and add my good wishes...

    No, it's W - smiliewave.gif Hope you have a wonderful day... :D
    ETA: Oh, I see you already found out!

    Oh, and HSprincess.pngwho lives in the tower and likes round rooms with spiral staircases...:rotfl:
    Well it looks likeDH and Iare getting a divorce :(

    Don't know what to do. I am so worried about finance. The money I earn doesn't even cover half the mortgage let alone the bills. I don't want to move because of the children but I think that I am going to have to.

    comforting.gif Huge hugs honey, and you do have a friend - PM when you are about and I will pop over...
    In the mean time, don't worry (easier said than done I know) Is this definite? has it been going on for a while or is it a spur of the moment thing because of all the stress you are both under with DH's job?
    You have many options and you will be looked after because you have children, so you will not be homeless or unable to pay rent/council tax, ect, you will be able to get help. Plus listen to Valli - she knows these things and what she said about the solicitors is true - I know Palmers do it as I have used their service myself, and there are plenty of others too... If you need me to go with you, let me know... I can't be there all the time because of work and stuff, but will be there when I can so just shout, I don't mind (I will tell you if I can't talk, don't worry...:D )
    Take care of yourself... I can see we're going to have to get you out and about a bit... :)
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  • rach
    rach Posts: 5,476 Forumite
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    I'm back and have a bag of rubbish and a bag for the charity shop. Did well over 60 things as near the end emptied about 50 half burned tea lights!! I wasn't super ruthless so think I can do a few more over the weekend. What fun!

    carlsbergal - the lady at my bank offered to do me some certified copies of the marriage cert, most places will accept those. We actually got the church to give us 3 copies anyway and I only had to send one off a couple of times!

    Friend has texted about a million times with updates on her train, I need to look online as she seems to have no idea when she gets in. Before I leave I want to put some washing in for DH to switch on when he gets in and wash up.

    We've decided against our thames path walk tomorrow, partly cos of the weather and partly bc DH is getting on well with study. I'm quite happy as I have a lot of walks at work next week and would like a lazy weekend in!
    Mum to gorgeous baby boy born Sept 2010:j
  • mummyyof5
    mummyyof5 Posts: 1,839 Forumite
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    Hi all not much time for flying this morning as its babygroup and I leave at 11am and dont get back till 5pm,will be busy when I get back I will not let the side down.
    Ihave done Wmx2
    Airer and radiators emptied and refilled
    Beds made
    S&S kitchen
    Breakfast pots washed
    Must dress DS now

    Hugs to everyone that needs one

    Oh Valli theres a castle in my village would that please your inner princess?
    Feeding 6 Adults 1 Teen a 8 year old with hollow legs and a very fussy 5 year old. Also 3 cats and 3 fishies
    To include all Food,Toiletries and Petfood.
  • AAAAgggggggggghhhhhhhhhh!
    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
    Will you all please give me a kick up the back side!?

    My in-laws are coming to stay for the weekend and I need to clean the whole house!

    Right best get started! Here's my list:
    Dailies
    [strike]Get out of bed and hit the ground flying!
    [/strike]
    Make the bed
    Have a glass of water
    Get Showered / Dressed
    S&S Bathroom
    [strike]Take DS1 to bathroom[/strike]
    Take down dirty laundry/mugs/glasses/dirty nappies
    [strike]Make DS1s bed[/strike]
    Make DS2s bed
    [strike]Give DS2 Milk & Nappy change
    Give DS1 breakfast[/strike]

    Give DS2 breakfast
    [strike]Check the calendar
    What's for dinner?[/strike]
    Put away dishes
    Recycling
    Empty WM
    Put a load WM on
    Empty TD
    Put TD on
    HAVE BREAKFAST
    Put away Laundry
    Get DS1 dressed
    Get DS2 dressed
    Give DS2 a snack
    Nursery run

    Monday - kitchen and dining mess
    Level One
    Clear and wipe work surfaces
    Wipe and replace small appliances
    Level Two
    Empty a cupboard.. clean it out then wipe and replace everything neatly.. get rid of all the odds and sods that shouldn't be in there..
    Wipe the front of the units, kickboards and the large appliances
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Three
    Wipe dining table and replace cloth if needed
    Clean the hob
    De-web and fluff the room

    Extras
    1. wipe out the fridge
    Tuesday - Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    Clear and wipe surfaces
    Scrub the sofa..
    Level Two
    Vacuum under furniture you can move
    Level Three
    Sort through coats and bags and shoes etc
    De-web and de-fluff the room

    Extras
    1. wipe and water any plants
    2. Fill a binbag of swag for charity shop
    3. Wipe all the paintwork in the hallway and up the stairs!
    Wednesday - bathroom, spare room and loo!
    Level One
    Clear and wipe surfaces
    Scrub the shower, bath, loo's, basins etc.. including the stands/pedestals
    Level Two
    chuck out all the empties
    Level Three
    Wash any blinds
    De-web and de-fluff the room

    Extras
    1. empty and wash out bins
    DUST & VACUUM THE WHOLE HOUSE! :eek: :eek:

    OH JUST RANG THEY'RE LEAVING AT 3PM SO WILL BE HERE AROUND 5PM.
    Housework only gets noticed when it's not done.
    My fake plants died because I did not pretend to water them.
    Can never keep up with the thread - otherwise I'll never get anything done! But hugs to All :grouphug:
    XxX
  • kassey
    kassey Posts: 1,523 Forumite
    Big hugs mumofjusttwo
    Friday - flyday
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Clear and vacuum floors in childrens and spare rooms[/STRIKE]
    HH-do something for YOURSELF!!!!!!!
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]wash any bedding that needs it[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]collect the dirty laundry[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]drag the junk from under the need and deal with it as necessary![/STRIKE]
    Level three
    [STRIKE]binbag dance[/STRIKE]
    find 10 things that are outgrown to give away/sell
    [STRIKE]put all disc back in the correct boxes[/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]sort through the school uniform.. get rid of outgrown stuff and bin dead stuff[/STRIKE]
    2. wash any sticky marks from the room
    3. wash any grotty stuffed creatures
    4. delete 5 unwanted contacts from your mobile phone!!
    Having a coffee break.
  • SummerMoon
    SummerMoon Posts: 1,090 Forumite
    Morning all. feeling much better today. Going to do some serious flying today.
    Need to get the whole house straighten up... its suffered badly while i've been poorly.
    An' It Harm None, Do As Thou Will

    MACAW... EAT BETTER, no snacks, no junk
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Hi,

    In my 3rd HHC i

    10 min folding
    Took cover off car seat
    Tidied Dining room
    Took toys for car boot upstairs
    Dusted
    Cleaned windowsill
    Hoovered & mopped dining

    HHC 10.50-11.20 anyone? I'm on a roll now and don't want to stop.
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Oops bit late but i'm off again...........
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,870 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    mojt - ((((hugs)))) listen to Valli, she knows what she's talking about, and I'm sure there are others on hear who can advise

    fbb - DON'T PANIC start by clearing up, putting away or throwing out all the stuff that's in the way of the cleaning. Then work out where you'll be spending the most time - make sure the loo, bathroom and kitchen are clean, and the living room is cosy (a quick vacuum & dust, plus plumping up the cushions should do). If they're staying, then make sure that the room they're using is clean, tidy and welcoming (folded towels on the end of the bed and a flower in a vase seem like small touches, but show you've made an effort and distract from other things!).

    If you've got stuff that is homeless, can you bung it under your bed for the moment, hidden by a bedspread? Promise yourself that you'll deal with it all when they've gone!

    Work crisis... why, on a Friday, when I've got the day off?!

    Must get myself dressed and on the train to London!
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