Weekly Flylady Thread 26th January 2009

hollyh

Hi,

In my HHC i

Collected laundry
Wm & Td x 1
Got myself & Ds2 washed & dressed
Put recycling in Utility room
Put dry dishes away
Sprayed kitchen sink with stardrops
Peeled 2 kiwis for Ds2
Started tidying kitchen

I'm going to do another HHC 9.40-10.10 if anyone fancies it?

mumofjusttwo

THanks everyone.

Thankfully I do look after the account but DH is being made redundant in Feb so I don't know how much he would be able to help with. guess i will just have to wait and see.

hollyh

Massive hugs to Mumofjusttwo.

Happy Birthday W:j .

I'm off again.................

toottifrootti

Before I do anything else i just want to jump in her and send a huge hug to mumofjusttwo((((hugs))))) - not an easy decision to make but its the first hurdle to you having a happier life. Dont go worrying about the house for now - the court would have to throw you out and they dont do that where children are living there. Find your nearest Citizens advice bureau and get an appointment asap - they will guide and as Valli said -start trying out the solicitors for one that you can 'gel' with.
Be selfish now for you and the kids sakes - much as you love/loved this guy - its not working now and you need to be strong!
We are your friends and will help all we can - pm if need to chat and I mean that!
toots xx

ETA have just seen your post re OH redundancy - please dont 'wait and see' go to Citizens advice and DHSS asap and get things in motion - you will get loads of help and so will he but he will have to do that for himself.

Valli

Mumofjust2 - added a bit more info to my post on the previous page.
but (and this is the awful bit) don't assume Legal Aid will help! You have to be dirt poor to qualify and may have to pay it back at some point if you get equity in property etc.

rach

mumofjust2 big hugs to you. I don't know much to give advice but what I would say is that moving is not necessarily the end of the world. When my parents divorced when I was little the best thing was moving as it was a clean break and we really felt like we started a new life.

I am back from the eyebrow appt looking gorgeous (haha) and am ready to fling at least 30 in 30 even if I don't have time for 60 in 60.... I am sadly excited about this!!!

see you later, feel free to join me anyone.

carlsberggal

I'm back! Our wedding on Saturday was brilliant, very relaxed and no hassle, closest family only and my BF, they had a couple of drinks with after and then left us to it. Hotel was beautiful and so glad we picked it. My DS was my witness, he looked handsome in his military polcemans dress uniform, he was more popular than us for people wanting photos with him!! He's off to Afghanistan in a month or so time, so was lovely everyone could see him before he leaves.

Haven't done much flying, mainly s/s but house doesn't look too bad.

Have had to ring and write to what seems like hundreds of people to inform that am now married, loads want original marriage certificate, so will be a slow process changing my name.

Mumofjust2 - so sorry to hear your news, but having been there with 3 kids and self employed (hardly earning enough to pay work bills never mind house bills) but you WILL be okay, there is plenty of help out there.

That's all for now, am supposed to be working!!

lil_me

Morning all

Well I got up, kids off to school after finding PE kit as DS2 told me he's lost his, grrrr. Dog walked, got covered in mud and very very cold, wind out there is bitter.

Unloaded DW, now I think I will go back to bed. Sorry not had good sleep over last few days and 'proper' studying schedule starts tomorrow so I think I need a little catch up nap.

mumofjusttwo ((hugs)) for you

toottifrootti

Morning all

froddy - hope the fracture clinic goes well and they are pleased with the growth.
Dusty hope you have a lovely weekend and dont get stranded anywhere!!!

Happy birthday to W :j :T :bdaycake: !$£^%"&$£^%^&*(*()_)(*&$£%£$!""!"}~?¬ (hope you have a lovley day!) xx

carslbergal that sounds like you had a lovely day and many congratulations!

so far I have
put out the wheelie bins for emptying
Wm on
brekkie scoffed

toots xx

hollyh

Hi,

In my 2nd HHC i

Spent 10 mins sorting the clean laundry thats been chucked on the sides of the utility instead of being folded ( it's still not done)
Emptied all bins
Soaked bins
Finished tidying kitchen
Cleaned kitchen sink
Cleaned kitchen windowsill
Washed up
S & S Surfaces

I'm going for another HHC 10.15-10.45 and i'm going to tackle the Dining room, OH is bringing my table & chairs back later so it needs a good clean first.