What a mess, split up with husband and house problems

jules-2005

I think you're right tango. I have had some fab advice on here and I've had loads of lovely supportive pm's. I think I've replied to everyone that has pm'd me but a big thank you to all of you. I didn't realise so many people would take the time to write me comforting and encouraging messages

I've known for the last 2 1/2 years that he has been cheating on me and I've found phone calls and texts on his mobile phone to "her" that he made on the day my daughter was born. I had decent proof from text messages from her on his phone I found shortly after my daughter was born was but I wasn't strong enough to deal with it then. He is still denying all the allegations of an affair but since we have split joint friends who didn't want to cause the split have started telling me things that I knew deep down.

TBH its a huge relief to me not to be worrying about what he is doing out until 3.45am 3 or 4 times a week. I feel like a big dark heavy cloud hs been lifted off my shoulders. I know its going to be tough for a while but I'm sure I'll come out the other side much happier.

Becles

jules-2005 wrote:

TBH its a huge relief to me not to be worrying about what he is doing out until 3.45am 3 or 4 times a week. I feel like a big dark heavy cloud hs been lifted off my shoulders. I know its going to be tough for a while but I'm sure I'll come out the other side much happier.

That's the spirit :T

I was where you are now, and I came out of it a much stronger and happier person. Keep your chin up, and if you need advice, just a chat or even a shoulder to cry on, there's plenty on here

wazza

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