Advice needed re. incident this morning

Rikki

Personally, I would report it to the police.

This situation could escalate and as you say you could have your daughter in the car next time. I wouldn't wait for that next time.

Magpie.

I wouldn't have thought my ex would have condoned it, even though he doesn't see the baby I'm sure he wouldn't want her to come to any harm.

I did try to contact him to tell him what they did but his mobile won't connect.

I don't want to get back at my ex or get anyone into trouble but it was so dangerous and frightening.

mrcow

Calling the police isn't going to get anyone in "trouble" - it's simply the right thing to do. The police deal with stuff like htis all the time.

Call them now whilst it's still fresh in your mind.

RedBern

yep - definately report it to the Police and leave them to deal with it however they see fit. Shame you didn't get your mum to video it on a mobile (not that I'd have been quick enough to think of that when it was happening !) May be worth a thought should anything similar happen in future.

spirit

You can't let them bully you Magpie. If it looks like they got away with it this time what does that tell them? how do you know they wouldn't do it - or something worse again?

they know your car, who's to say they won't tamper with it and what the effects of that might be?

onetomany

sod ur ex ring the police it dosent matter what went on with you and ur ex no one deserves this ring them now and f**k ur ex

Magpie.

RedBern wrote: »

yep - definately report it to the Police and leave them to deal with it however they see fit. Shame you didn't get your mum to video it on a mobile (not that I'd have been quick enough to think of that when it was happening !) May be worth a thought should anything similar happen in future.

Good idea, shame the brain doesn't think of things like that at the time!!

I will report back with what happens

AnnieM_3

The driver showed a complete disregard for the safety of you and anyone else in the car, not to mention anyone else who could have got caught up in an accident, had one happened. It could have caused a pile-up with multiple deaths!

It's their own fault if they get into trouble - they didn't have to do what they did.

Keep us posted!

jamsandwhich

The only thing I can say is that if this was my situation, I would report to the employer and the police. Without knowing the full story this is highly intimidationg behaviour - have not had this sort of thing personally but know people who have - and needs nipping in the bud immediately before it escalates. I would show him that in no uncertain terms are you a force to be reckoned with. Good luck and don't let it get you down:)

Poppy9

You should have dialled 999 while it was happening as they could have monitored via the cameras until a unit arrived. It's not too late to report to the police and I would do so immediately without bothering to contact their employer. The police will do that to establish who the vehicle was booked out to, who was driving etc. Without evidence though they will probably just get a warning.