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Lucifa73

Snaggles wrote: »

God Luc that's awful :grouphug:

It's amazing what people go through and still come out the other side as decent human beings.

It always horrifies me to hear from people I know that they've been through similar. It's almost like I feel that by because I have been abused/assaulted that those I know and love are somehow protected by the law of averages IYSWIM

And I have come out fairly normal:p

(Land_of)_Maz

Snaggles wrote: »

Well, I've sent D an email (can't ring cos he's working) explaining how I feel about having some kind of weird half-relationship with him, and basically saying if he's not ready for a relationship then all I can offer is friendship. I also told him I couldn't meet him for a while at least and that maybe our conversations should be much more platonic from now on.

So I guess it depends how he reacts to that - if he reacts well then I would love to be friends and see what happens. If he reacts badly, or doesn't respect what I've said then I know I have to walk away.

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

god that sounds soooooo similar to what I've just gone though.
:grouphug:

tough for you both ladies, but you do deserve better than to be just a booty call... words are cheap if the actions say different...

Lucifa73

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

:eek: :eek: but you seem very matter of fact about it now.. which is good....

Definitely healthier than the anger and denial phases:p I just refuse to let the !!!!!! ruin my life and I have a lot to be thankful for now which might not have happened if I hadn't gone through the bad stuff to get here

bookseller1980

How was lunch Luc?
Whispers to protect the CD folks.

(Land_of)_Maz

bookseller1980 wrote: »

How was lunch Luc?
Whispers to protect the CD folks.

lalalalalalalalalallalalalala - i'm not listening!

immoral_angeluk

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

tough for you both ladies, but you do deserve better than to be just a booty call... words are cheap if the actions say different...

Exactly. Which iws why I'm refusing to let it happen anymore. All or nothing wiht me now.

excuse any typos. wearing gloves as it'sa freezing cold! stupid heating!!!

Lucifa73

bookseller1980 wrote: »

How was lunch Luc?
Whispers to protect the CD folks.

*whispers back*

Lunch was fab! Ate too much and need to do a Coke burp but can't as am in open plan office:p

Lucifa73

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

lalalalalalalalalallalalalala - i'm not listening!

Have you started CD then? I thought you were only just booked for your consultation.

bookseller1980

Lucifa73 wrote: »

*whispers back*

Lunch was fab! Ate too much and need to do a Coke burp but can't as am in open plan office:p

Good - about the lunch not the burp.

Did you get any prezzies?

Bunnyinthelights

I had a lovely chicken salad, was lush. And a banana shake.

Gym after work tonight then a CD 'chocolate' bar. Yummy. Then bed.

(How was the cauli/cheese Bookie??? *drools*)