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whatatwit

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Nothing nearly so dramatic unfortunately - he just has limited control over limbs and has the occasionally !!!!!! (terribly nonPC I know but can't think of a more suitable description:o ) episode...

What was the description the other day..."think Wizard of Oz Scarecrow with tourettes" :rotfl:

Lucifa73

Snaggles wrote: »

It's hard because I love him, and actually, despite everything, I do believe he loves me, but it's not enough is it? We need to have respect and trust too otherwise it will never work.

Wise words. I have no fear that you'll make the wrong decision in the long run with such a strong streak of good sense and self respect running through you:beer:

Burlesque_Babe

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Sorry but have to comment again.

Basically you're saying you're a better, stronger person now and you know his behaviour/attitude is unacceptable but you are still prepared to put up with it but you would tell (in fact are advising) a friend not to??? How is that rational

because i'm not yet at the stage to finally say 'no more'. I get closer, at a quicker pace as time goes on, but it took nearly a year to get over what happened with work, it was 8 months before I even had the confidence to apply for a bottom rung part time job that someone leaving school could do and it's only been in the last 2 or 3 months that i've finally (at 38!) started to stand up for myself. I need to now get the 'social' BB back - I stopped even going to the supermarket because I was so scared let alone a social life - with people :eek:

From the chat me and Snags had the other night, I just felt she may go down a similar route (for various reasons) and she's too much of a friend for me not to be brave and say how I feel (I'm a serial fence sitter usually :rolleyes: )

However, I know Snaggles will be a lot tougher than me.

(and she knows I have the necessary ways of making him very sorry if he is a !!!!!! again )

Lucifa73

whatatwit wrote: »

What was the description the other day..."think Wizard of Oz Scarecrow with tourettes" :rotfl:

That's him:p

Gosh I can be such a biatch!!!

Lucifa73

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

because i'm not yet at the stage to finally say 'no more'. I get closer, at a quicker pace as time goes on, but it took nearly a year to get over what happened with work, it was 8 months before I even had the confidence to apply for a bottom rung part time job that someone leaving school could do and it's only been in the last 2 or 3 months that i've finally (at 38!) started to stand up for myself. I need to now get the 'social' BB back - I stopped even going to the supermarket because I was so scared let alone a social life - with people :eek:

From the chat me and Snags had the other night, I just felt she may go down a similar route (for various reasons) and she's too much of a friend for me not to be brave and say how I feel (I'm a serial fence sitter usually :rolleyes: )

However, I know Snaggles will be a lot tougher than me.

(and she knows I have the necessary ways of making him very sorry if he is a !!!!!! again )

Fair enough. I realise you need to deal with this at your own pace. Just so's you know I care:o and hope I haven' p'd you off with my bluntness:o

Burlesque_Babe

that's ok Luc xx

Bunnyinthelights

If only love was enough....

*sigh*

Snaggles

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

If only love was enough....

*sigh*

:grouphug:

^^^ That's not a hug, it's just some random rudeness for you...

Lucifa73

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

that's ok Luc xx

thanks.

I should probably fence-sit more - I'd keep friends for longer

Bunnyinthelights

ummm, can someone please explain how I open a site via Outlook then?